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Advice For A Friend
created @ 12/23/2008 08:12 pm
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ok doing this for a friend. (She wanted to, but didnt want her man 2 see)

She has been seeing a man and they were looking forward to the future. Talking about marriage etc. He has 3 daughters and she has 2..His ex also has a daughter that has spinal-bifida ....She had no idea that the other daughter's father had never been involved and he (her boyfriend) would continue to take care of her and get her on the weekends. Although the girl is not his. She tried speaking to him about her fears and responsibilities of taking on a child with this condition and he totally flew off and said it is an all or nothing thing. He didn't listen to what she was trying to say...She is doing research to find out more about this condition but does anyone know anything about it. And do you think she was in the wrong for voicing her concern ? Considering that she already has her 2 girls, then would be taking on his 3, and his ex's child,??? So my question is, should she keep trying to get him to understand her concerns,, or just quit now before anyone else gets hurt?



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