Merci's blog: "about me in the cyber world "

I have posted this before but it seems people still dont get it , so here it is...Being on fu for me is to get away from real life issues for a couple hours on and off a day, it is talking with friends i have had many years of being here, and making new ones , playing the leveling game, helping those that i can, if i hit your like button and i rate you dont take it as im wanting or expecting anything more from you. i welcome chat in both PM's and SB but the second you ask me about sex or cam or my phone number or just drop yours i will ignore you . you will have respect for me, my man and your self , as i say act like an ass i'll treat you like one.

i'm not here to meet a man, to take anyones man,i have many male friends i seem to trust them more after being in 2 relationships that for a reason un-known to me cheated on me , one very abusive . i had someone ( im glad she did ) come to me in fear i was flirting and trying to get with her r/l husband. i assure everyone im very in love with my man and even if i wasn't i would not do an online hook up...did it once and it was one of the BIGGEST mistakes of my life .

 i dont post NSFW's , i dont want to see your's ,looking at a cam, pics, or talking about sex does nothing for me . i was raised on respect for everyone , respect for my self and morals . i can be your best friend or the biggest bitch you have ever seen . i beleive everyone deserves a fair chance  , if you break my inner rules of life i will cut you off quicker than i let you in.

 i have the best man any woman could ask for, he doesn't drink, do drugs cuss  at me , yell at me or anything else to hurt me in anyway,  when im down he finds every way he can to pick me back up, he loves all 5 of my kids as his own and he's the father to only 1 , to me he's perfect in everyway  to him he'll tell you all his flaws .

To the ignorant asses, yes, my man is black, yes obviously i am white, i have told many off for the stupid , rude, ignorant things that come from their finger tips. i dont care if a erson is purple and green with pink polka dots . we're all the same , we breathe, bleed , eat sleep and dress the same, we have hopes and dreams and goals all the same , we laugh and cry the same . if you are one of these type of people it's best you remove me and move on cause im quick to put you in your place on the subject .

I have had many friends ask me to come back to FB after my 8 month leave for family reasons, i respect everyone of you and the new freinds i make everyday being here . please remember that respect goes both ways,i am in a relationship with a great man i have a great family that i love and cherish with all my heart,mind,body and soul. i am sick SICK to death of coming on here and being disrespected from the ppl thatcant get a grasp on real life and the cyber life . i started on this site 5 yrs ago as is was lost cherry into cherry tap , fubar has brought out the worst in some ppl with the begging the lack of rules and respect with webcams and the shit we see in our PM's and shout boxes . friends give help to those that need it in the game of leveling , here to give us support when we are having a bad day in real live, to make the other laugh, the charging for pimps,shitfaces,tags and skins is becoming BS. YOU ALL HAVE ASKED WHY I'M NOT HERE SO MUCH WHY I POST STATUS MESSAGES THE WAY I DO ABOUT STUPIDNESS -THE ABOVE REASONS ARE WHY..IF I DIDN'T HAVE SUCH GREAT FRIENDS THAT SPEND THEIR HARD EARNED REAL MONEY ON ME WITH BLINGS,GIFTS AND HAPPY HOURS I HAVE HAD IN THE PAST I'D PROBABLY REQUEST MY ACT. TO BE DELETED. I HATE LOGGING ON HERE AND HAVING A SHITTY ATTITUDE THAT I HAVE BEEN HAVING..IF YOU DONTLIKE WHAT I SAY HERE PLEASE REMOVE ME AND I'LL GO ON MY WAY..THANK YOU TO ALL OF YOU THAT RESPECT,HAVE MORALS AND VALUES IN LIFE LOTS OF LOVES TO YOU ALL 

: i think you're a sweet guy, i like that you come and say hello daily ,but honestly i am a very happy married woman with A great family, even if i wasn't married i don't believe the net is the place to find a relationship. i dont come on here to get men and the once in a while women to get hit on in the cyber world, i'm here for friends to chat and to laugh to share some parts of my life with those friends i'm sorry if i sound like a bitch or you think i'm being rude if this makes you feel that way i'm sorry, we can be good friends or we can go our own ways . my about me is huge in text and give the details of what i do and wont do in the cyber world