Play Up Your Sex Appeal
Throughout history, women’s bodies have been regarded as beautiful and worthy of desire, whereas the male anatomy has generally been considered “functional” and borderline unattractive.
Times are changing. The heterosexual male is increasingly being sexualized in our society; just think of all the male celebrities who shamelessly flaunt their sex appeal. Justin Timberlake was at the helm of the “bringing sexy back” movement in 2006 with his suggestive album and dance moves that had women of all ages swooning. And many other male celebrities have followed suit. David Beckham has coyly stated that his wife, Victoria Beckham, thinks his butt is his best asset. “She likes it because it’s firm,” says the soccer star.
Even ad campaigns aimed at women have jumped on the man-as-sex-object bandwagon. The Canadian company Reversa, which sells anti-aging creams, created quite a stir with its promotional website. Women were urged to discover the “side effects” of the creams by clicking on four men’s profiles. They could then watch a chef, a plumber, a fireman, and a gardener perform various suggestive tasks -- such as eating oysters and washing a car -- while sexy music and moaning played in the background. The company even went so far as to auction off a weekend with a male model on eBay. The winning bid was $2,250.
It probably won’t come as a big surprise that most women love this new trend. But instead of wallowing in self-pity because every woman you know keeps watching Timberlake’s “My Love” video and squealing, it’s time for you to learn to play up your own sex appeal. The following tips will teach you how to be sexy and coy -- without being a pansy -- in order to seduce the ladies. They will work whether you use them on a girl you just started dating or on your long-term girlfriend. Just remember to tread more carefully if the relationship is new, as you don’t want to scare the poor girl off with your powerful charm.
Start by taking her out for a night on the town. Over the course of the evening, make suggestive comments and innuendos without being lewd. Lean in close to her, give her a coy little smile, look her straight in the eyes, and say, “Your lips look delicious.” Touch her hand gently every so often. Build up tension throughout the evening without ever making an overtly sexual comment.
Tease her with these oral sex and intercourse techniques At the end of the evening, when it is time for a goodnight kiss, don’t just start sucking her face like a savage dog. Instead, you are going to surprise and tease her. Lean in slowly, and when your lips are just a few inches from hers, stop and pull back slightly. Look her in the eyes, give her a half-smile and wait a few seconds. Then, lean in and kiss her gently for a minute before pulling away again.
After a few seconds, lean forward until she starts leaning in, then pull back suddenly and laugh. Now grab her face gently and kiss her passionately. You must do this immediately so that she doesn’t feel like you were laughing at her; you have to show her that you’re playing a little game. Chances are that she’s never had a guy tease her before; it will leave her intrigued and wanting more.
Once again, the idea is to not go straight for the prize. Start by kissing and licking her inner thighs and the area around her vagina. Every so often, make her believe you’re going for it by approaching her clitoris with your mouth, but stop and return to her thighs. Then, build up the tension by licking her clitoris gently before pulling away again. Continue teasing her until she is writhing and begging for it, at which point you can finally “give in.”
This takes self-control, but the rewards are well worth it. The idea is to refute the myth that all men only have the end goal in mind. This trick works particularly well if it’s the first time you are going to have sex with her. If it’s with your long-term girlfriend, it can also work, but you’ll have to tweak it a bit so it fits your relationship.
Start with some passionate kissing and foreplay. Wait until you are both really worked up, then suddenly refuse to penetrate her, get out of bed, and get dressed. Give her a coy smile and tell her innocently, “I’m not that easy, sweetheart, you’ll have to wait until I’m ready.” You have to clearly show her that you’re teasing her so that she doesn’t feel like you’re judging her or that she did something wrong. Once you’re dressed, lean down, give her a passionate kiss and tell her, “I want to wait to make it even more special.” Then leave.
If you’re capable of pulling this off, congratulations. But don’t think that your mission is fully accomplished; you will have to tease her a little more the next time you find yourself in bed with her. This time, start by penetrating her with only an inch or two of your penis, and then withdraw it. Progressively penetrate her more deeply, but pull out every so often until she’s begging you to do her. Ok, ok, now you can go for it. And really go for it this time. You both deserve it.
leave her wanting more
Women have always held all the sexual power, but not anymore. These techniques will set you apart from all the other guys she knows who just want to score. You’ll leave her intrigued and she’ll definitely be back for more. Just be careful not to use all these techniques in the same night or you’ll come off as trying too hard. Now get out there and be sexy, damn it.
Article Suggested By: Martin P., Des Moines, IA
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