The real me: Pretty much what you see is what you get. I believe in living in your own integrity, whether it is for the better, or not. (of course you should always be diplomatic about how you express yourself) : ) Honesty IS a good thing! And yes, for anyone wondering, omission is betrayal!!! I like to admit that I am not perfect. And I do believe in just being yourself (someone will eventually like you for who you are) ; ). I think that I am an easy going person and I can get along with just about anyone (just as long as they can get along with me) : ) I have a positive outlook on life...I am learning that my so called mistakes are only making me a better person. I am also a "responsibility" kind of boy. In other words, take responsibility for yourself, your behaviors, your life!!! (God gave us a brain so that we can make our own choices...If you don't make the right decision the first time...I guarantee you will have a second chance to either make another mistake, or possibly, make the right decision for yourself). I do consider myself to be more of a spiritual person... I like people for who they are and I am not too judgmental (however I truly do believe that some people deserve to be judged). Some bad traits: I can be a perfectionist, stubborn and impatient (Although I believe that I have now mastered the impatient thing...and I am only listing these because I'm learning to appreciate my imperfections. I think that comes with age) ; ) The other me: And the best part of me is I am a great Father of three "wonderful" kids. I adore them! They have contributed to who I have become today and I am blessed to have them in my life!!! : ) .I wanted to have my children when I was young therefore I could be a "young" grandfather. It has been over ten years since I ended my second marriage...wow how time flies! I have to say that it has been very interesting...I have learned so much about myself. While I still need help with some areas of life...for the first time in my life I am independent. I really like that!! : )