AZTammie LOVE M... Same as you would if you were in a real life bar. This site was started as a place for a small group of guys to do homework, play games and visit. It transformed itself over time, however, this is a site for adults, not an adult site. Fubar also is not a dating site nor a porn site. But just like real life, there are people of all kinds here and so all you can do is meet people, make friends and who knows? You just might meet someone special, it happens from time to time. The best way to meet a woman is after you shut off your computer...go meet a real woman at the store, church, library, nightclub, maybe at a park or gym, never know where she may be! Best of luck to you, have a great weekend!