my name is Bobby I am a 50 year old single white male originally from Providence Rhode Island I came to Topeka Kansas to meet my family when I get out of the military in 92. I had a sister and two brothers who got adopted into another family when I was 9 months old my father was a single parent and could not take care of all of us.we are only half related same mother different dads.it is kind of creepy my sister gave me letters when I met her that my mother wrote to her explaining the doctor said she would die if she gave birth to me she died 10 days later she was only 35my dad died when I was about 7 I was raised by an aunt and uncle.because of the thing from family to family within the family I grew up quite the wild child nobody could tell me anythingI cannot stand when people tell me something can't be done nothing is impossible just try a little harder I am also an adrenaline junkie I love the rush I like taking risk. I believe I am a freak of nature everybody in my family has passed away I am the only one left they have all had some kind of ailment I have hardly ever been sick never got hurt I mean nothing major when I was a teenager in the military the Navy when is Special Forces search for 12 years when I get out I came here to find them when I got here my sister told me they had just started selling alcohol I guess it was a dry county right before that it was only private clubs. it was like I went back 6 months in timeI remember I got a job at Colonial Park townhouses when I first got here cutting lawns I showed up for work the first day wearing a polo shirt and the boss asked me why I was working. anyway that's enough ramblingI have been single for 4 years since 2009 at that time I was in an 11 year relationship and she cheated on me for a younger guyI don't really remember much of 2009 because I drank an awful lot then realized how stupid I was and bought an American Bulldog puppy have for the last three years it has been me and him okay I just turned 3 years old a month ago he weighs 189 pounds everybody loves him the relationship has been amazinghe never gets an attitude he never argues he's always right by your side it has been so peaceful but the bad thing is I have become a born again virgin lol.so if Kansans a truly hospitable like in The Wizard of Oz and anybody would like to become friends you may ask me anything you like I will be completely open and honest with you plus I need to get out of the house for years is a long time it is great to meet everybody and thank you for letting me drinking your bar