My name is Jesse Martinez. I am currently **MARRIED**. I was born in Watsonville, California. I currently live in Salinas, California. I can't wait to get married. It bothers me when I have to end with relationships with those I love. I'm not saying that everything will just be perfect when I'm a husband, but I'm excited about finding the girl who will love me as much as I love her. Which im pretty sure I aready have. My closest relationships are with people who can listen, but also can tell me what they really feel, even if it's something I don't want to hear. Proving people wrong gives me satisfation occasionally. I hate when I tell someone I don't want to talk about something and they keep asking about it **NEWS FLASH** I didn't say "I don't want to talk about it" to exercise my lungs. Honestly... I've never been real into perfect attendance, homework assignments, or studying. Not because I think it's cool to be dumb. Ultimatly because, I choose to slack off. I give people the benifit of the doubt way too often. Don't expect me to throw my opinion out in the open when it's not asked for... I'm not even close to being done growing up... However, progress has been made. Emo kids are basically the death of me. I'm not hating on your music, your style, or any of that. But when you spend more of your time complaining than realizing how many things you have to be thankful for, that gets on my nerves. You people are making the people who actually have depression look really bad. I believe in God, but I don't support all Catholic/Christian views. Too many people are hurting, and it usually has to do with their relationships with friends and family. I think it is the most useless and absurd thing ever to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love them after being together for like a week. I'm not the type to walk through life with a "hurray for me and to hell with you" attitude. I forgive, but I won't forget. Just because I dont like something you did, said, or wear does not mean I don't think you're a good and intresting person But I'm not always going to be mature enough to find out. And I don't always expect you to care But if you're still reading this, you probably do. I consider my friends and family the most valued treasures of my life. I learned that if you respect other people chances are they're going to respect you too. Everyone thinks I like to sleep. It's not that I like to sleep, it's just that I don't like to get up! There is a difference. I believe people can move things with their minds. I never regret anything because I like to learn from the mistake i've made. I would never do anything just for spite. I think you have to have a sense of humor to keep your sanity. I won't change my life because of somebody else's interpretation of it. because they don' really know me. I think everybody has their own personal path through life. It's laid out for you. It's up to you to walk it. Sometimes you just want your life to be your life and not everybody else's to speculate on. The most boring thing to me in the world is silence. I have a really short attention span, which I hate.... Umm im a pretty laid back person. I try too be very content. When it comes to being romantic, im pathetic. I'm not so romantic. I'm such a chicken I think im just a little shy when it comes to that stuff. I don't do flowers or candy, because of course, it's too cliche. But the problem is it's always a nice sentiment no matter what. The first thing I notice about a girl is her smile and I look for confidence, patience, and honesty. I like a girl who maintains herself but isn't arrogant. I like a girl who is understanding and can make me laugh. If you want to know more just ask.MY EMAILThe_Last_Great_Bridge_Jumper@hotmail.com