Welcome
Open minded people
word acrobats
non-linear thinkers with a twist

My Interest

Rewind
I love reading scientific texts related to any historical period or event

Forward
I love reading science fiction, the ever moving borders of human imagination are fascinating.

Stop
I like to stop time, now.

Record
Photos I took, diary, lyrics, music, film

Viewpoint

42 degrees, counter clockwise rotated on the n-axis

Looking for

Open minded females for a strong built relationship.
Interesting topics related to Romantic sensual
encounters.

If...
f you come closer, sit back, relax and enjoy the flight.
If you are looking for a boring life, please use the
emergency exit now.


Things I should have learned by now

Face the facts. Then act on them.

Not thinking is the best way for making mistakes

Assumptions are the mother of all fuck-ups

Gibberish is a universal language but rubbish outruns it by far

Heart, hand and brain need to work together for a successfull outcome

Only live with what you have done and try in the future to only do what you're happy to live with

You can't change the past, but you can ruin your present by worrying about the future

If it dosen't work with fighting, it will not work with more fighting.

If it's not easy, it's not excellence.

The acceptance of my own mortality is the ultimate freedom.

There is no excuse for cowardice in front of your own life.

We might share the same planet, but we might not life in the same world.


Lust, Love and Sexuality

Important and a big part of my freedom, my life and my relationship(s)


And besides all that

Friends and
more friends

hmmm there many things i can rite and say about my intrest but if you cant tell my intrest and desiers by now then why bother explaining that which is alredy explaind????



my one true intrest is
I strive to live each day to the fullest and develop my potential as a human being. People will tell you that I'm a blend of intelligence, savvy, wisdom, and warm-hearted passion. At the same time, I combine an easy going, fun-loving and humorous nature with humbleness, quiet confidence, and inner peace to deal with everyday life. We can't control all the random events that occur in everyday life, but we CAN control how we handle them. Attitude determines altitude. I give my priorities close attention. I can laugh at myself and the irony of life, let go/feel totally free, make love with true intimacy combined with sensual abandon, as well as take my responsibilities in stride. Worldly possessions, attainments, and pleasures are savored and enjoyed to the fullest, but do not define who I am. My "importance" or "status" matters little, because I am no better or worse than anyone else...just equal. That inherent equality seems priceless for it unifies everyone to a greater or lesser extent, plus it relieves alot of pressure trying to win favor for hidden agendas. Every person that we meet in life has their own perspective, and if we live according to other people's opinions, then we may be giving our power away to live somebody else's life. We are who we are...no matter what others think! Yet we must honor anyone's right to be themselves and express their views...as long as they don't injure or cripple someone else. Life's overarching purpose for me is quite basic: To learn and grow...while helping others along the way. Let the chips fall where they may. Indeed, the simple things ARE the most profound are they not lol....


"face to the floor ass in air 10toes up 10 toes down 2assies rolling round and round
thats the wild side thats what people want"

"fire & brimstone drama and power babeh thats all they crave"

I see people before I see kink. Random friend-requests from strangers will be denied. At the very least, send a message first.

All the coffee in Columbia wont make me a morning person. I like long walks in the dark, fire, writing smut, red wine, antisocial people and a fucking ton of other things that you can ask me about if you are curious.

Somehow its reassuring knowing Im not the only one pretending to be normal out there that there are many more out there like me lol.


You never know what is enough,
until you know what is more than enough and belive me that wont happen people are to greedy and posesive one should be free yes free of mind body and spirit but above all else human
emotions reach down and pull your animal emotions and instincts out live life like it was intened wild and free....

Music
I know that this section is for music but i just choose to place other random stuff about me in here so forgive the extra content lol.....I will say this though music to me is life and life is music,god is the conductor and the world a stage so come lets dance to gods grate tunes....
My interests are always growing and evolving, and at this point I believe I am willing to learn about anything, even if I personally am not into it. I am always open to trying new things, and I am often pleasantly surprised by how much I enjoy them. Thus I'm always looking for techniques, toys, and ways to play., friends,computers, the game of SIMS I am a collector lol I have all of them, and meeting new people,basicly just having fun and living one day at a time...I'm interested in all kinds of beauty, good chai, cheap philosophy, armchair metaphysics, saxophones, cats, dark humor, going in circles, video games, long walks, self-inquiry, movies, books, Asian food, talking politics and religion, turning my enemies into farm animals, good stories, bad jokes, building Lego Star Wars and Batman sets, lighting things on fire, falling in love several times a day, playing music, and generally being a bit of a geek. I've been an onstage performer in Broadway shows, an unseen musician in movie scores, a university professor, an arcade game repair tech, an ordained minister, a pizza chef, a comic book store employee, a counselor, and a book and magazine author. Care to guess what's next?
well i guess its about time i get this shit out so here goes... Hello my name is James and a few more I answer to them all and then some...lol... over the past 3 years i have gone through a lot...lol.... some know more bout what i mean.
And after everything is said and done, i have spent to long trying to please everyone around me...well its me time, i'm gonna do what i want, and do what will make me happy, and if you don't like it tough shit:) but other than that i am a down to earth person, laid back and im a pretty simple guy .up until now my world has been rocky, but i have finally re-paved, and its smooth riding from here on. i have a pretty drama and stress free life and it will remain that way cause if your full of drama or cause me to stress then i eliminate you from my life PERIOD!!

yes i am 48 years old and i still call my self a JUGGALO and if you dont get it then fuck you! been onfu-bar off and on now 8 years . i have met some truely wonderful people here on fubar some of which i am proud to call my friends. I am On fu bar to meet women and maybe some day my soul mate and for those that care yes i am a kinky perve,

Experimental
100%
Switch
86%
Degradation Lover
82%
Bondage
82%
Submissive
69%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
79%
Dominant
91%
Sadist
68%
Masochist
46%
Vanilla
09%
note this is a quize results from i quiz.com and should not be used to detern what life style you are but i must say its pined me pretty good lol....
I know that this section is for games but i just choose to place other random stuff about me in here so forgive the extra content lol.....I will say this though the sims 1-2-and-3 are kick ass games i know inot only play them but am an advid collector i have them all....
am a 6'2" stocky big bone 285lbs brown hair iceblue eyes 47 year old white male no tats no piersonings just your avrage american joe with a love for all women...


Hometown.........Flint...Genessee County, Michigan ...


Places I've been.........Being Ex.military Ive traveld alot,and enjoyed it and when im old enough to retier i plan on doing a hell of alot more... I've travelled to and or lived in Copenhagen, Helsingor, Birkerod, Nyhavn and Svanemollen Denmark, Malmo Sweden, Frankfurt Germany, Montreal Canada, Arlington, McLean, Norfolk, Little Creek, Bailey's Crossroads and Virginia Beach Virginia, Syracuse, Cortland, Ithaca, Albany, Poughkeepsie, Hyde Park, Rhinebeck, Wappinger Falls, East Fishkill, Beacon, Newburgh, Pine Plains, Millbrook, Ballston Spa, Saratoga Springs, Long Island, Westchester County, Dutchess County, New York City and Plattsburgh New York, Los Angeles, the San Francisco bay area, Santa Barbara, Pasadena and San Diego California, Philadelphia and Bucks County Pennsylvania, Amherst, Northampton, Boston and Cambridge Massachusetts, Somersworth and Nashua New Hampshire, Las Vegas and Reno Nevada, Marin County, Costa Mesa, Garden Grove, Tustin, Newport Beach, Sacramento, Santa Rosa, Petaluma, Sebastapol, Oakland, Los Altos, Fairfield, Mountain View, Berkeley, Salinas, Richmond, Monterey, Vallejo, San Pablo, Ventura, Oxnard, Carmel, Palo Alto, Seaside, El Cajon, San Rafael and its Dominican Estates, Sausalito, Corte Madera, Mill Valley, Fairfax, Bolinas, Stinson Beach, Novato, Tiburon and San Jose California, Dallas, Grand Prairie, Plano and Arlington Texas, Savannah and Pembroke Georgia, Washington D.C., Des Moines and Davenport Iowa, Omaha Nebraska, Cheyenne Wyoming, Vail Colorado, Cleveland Ohio, Chicago Illinois, Tampa, Lakeland, Plant City, Brandon and St.Petersburg Florida, Camden, Trenton, Hackensack, Perth Amboy, Hoboken, Newark, Irvington, East Orange, Teaneck, Englewood, Englewood Cliffs, Woodbridge, Jersey City, East Brunswick, New Brunswick, Carteret, Montclair, North Brunswick and Saddle River New Jersey, Stamford, Danbury, Darien, Cos Cob, Riverside, Norwalk and Greenwich, Connecticut...

EducationI ..........I am a firm beliver there is no end to
education and hold degrees in, television-radio broadcasting and productions,private security and investigations 'human relations ,thyology,phlosophy,computer sience and repairs,not to mention all the trade and skill certifics that i hold sorta a jack of all trades master of none....LOL I'm constantly attempting to expand my knowledge in anything. As I said, I'm a perfectionist, I want to know everything about everything, and while I know it's an unreachable goal, it gives me the motivation to never stop learning and never stop pushing myself to greater achievements. So if you're complacent with your knowledge, understanding or overall self, don't even bother talking to me. I'll get bored with you in a matter of seconds.

Work.......I am sorry to say, I am Disabled,and dont work ,dont get me wrong ,i am not parligic,an invelent or bed ridden,i just have a few medicail issues that keep me from working,those that need to know will be told those of you that dont well mind your own busniss lol...
Military.......do you really want to know ?....lol
United States National guards - 1980 to 1982......1982 to 1985 United States army combat engineers......1985 to 1992 U.S Marine Core Specile Forceies,and Drill Instructer....
Activities.........lol I really have way to many in life to list but to name a few.....All kinds of Museums, Tennis, Golf, Chess, Shopping, Art Galleries, Theater, My love of Salsa, Merengue and Hip-Hop Dancing! Table Tennis, Pool and Billiards, Concerts, Spectator Sports, Academic Seminars and Workshops, Gourmet Cooking...
Favorite Charities......again way to many lol and i faithfuly contribute to each one when i can ...hmm wounder if thats why i stay broke.....Martin L. King Jr National Memorial Fund, UNICEF, United Negro College Fund, American Red Cross, Amnesty International, American Heart Association, Cancer Care, American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals..
Favorite Music........Everything!....R&B, Soul, Jazz, Pop, Opera, Rock, Classical, Folk, World Music, Reggae and Salsa...
Favorite TV Shows..........Law and Order, Turner Classic Movies, The Academy Awards, American Life Television Network, 60 Minutes, Jeopardy!, The Kennedy Center Honors! Mission Imposible, Weeds, 48 Hours Mystery!, Combat!, Dateline NBC, Independent Film Channel, Perry Mason, Real Sports, Tell Me You Love Me, Costas Now, History Channel, HBO, The Wire, Cinemax, Washington Week in Review, Showtime, American Gangster, PBS, Like It Is, American Movie Classics, Biography, Six Feet Under, The Sopranos, The Actors Studio, Real Housewives of Orange County, Law and Order-Criminal Intent, Bonanza, SportsCenter, Cold Case Files, Without A Trace, Momma's Boys, Saturday Night Live!, Damages, Who Wants to Be A Millionaire!, Anderson 360, Nightline, Men of a Certain Age...
Favorite Movies Whew!...too many to list...any and all film noir!...let's say I'm a reknowned and very proud card carrying member of the American Film Institute!
Favorite Books.........To be Loved by Berry Gordy Jr., The Master Game by Robert S. de Ropp., Journey to Justice by Johnnie L. Cochran Jr., The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran., My American Journey by Colin L. Powell., The Autobiography of Malcolm X and Ladies and Gentlemen Lenny Bruce!.


Favorite Quotes........."Be careful of toes you step on today because they may be connected to the ass you kiss tommorrow!"..."If you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything!..."Nothing ventured nothing lost!"..."If you don't have some kind of baggage did you ever leave your room?"..."What goes around comes around!"..."Pretty is as pretty does!" and finally, "God doesn't like ugly!"


Favorite People.......ok this is a touchy and vitial part of my life i could sit here and give you the same song and dance everyone else gives you the milliatay ,fammily members ect..ect..but i grew up to belive to idolize anyone but ones self and your gods are wrongbut hell ive went against my belifes befor...so I'll make, notice and share the comment on this subject with you a little later on...


Favorite Places.......Europe, Scandinavia (Denmark, Sweden, Norway), Canada, The Carribean (Barbados, Cuba and the Cayman Islands, Jamaica, Trinidad, Bahamas and Virgin Islands), the Pacific Northwest(Vancouver British Columbia, Washington State, Oregon and California)...


Favorite Animals.......ahhh yes the Fhaireet holds top spot and the following fallow suit...Parakeets, Tropical Fish, English Cocker Spaniels, Parrots, Elephants, Macaws and other Tropical Birds, Panda Bears...