well first and foremost i and a bbw if you couldn't tell by my pictures so if your not into that you dont have to waste either mine or your time i like average slim or muscular guys (no offense to my bbm just not my style i hope you can respect that) i recently moved to colchester ct i am looking for employment and i live with family so if i give you the chance to meet up with me we will have to meet else where ( in my town cause i dont drive either i know i sound like a bum right) so on to what im looking for; as of right now i am looking for a friend who can become more i want my next relationship to be my last and in order to achieve that goal we have to be friends cause i want to spend the rest of my life with my best friend. i have one lil girl who is 5 and is my everything we are a package deal but again if i choose to meet with you she will not be involved unless we are serious. i dont want any more kids right now but who knows what the future brings right now i am just focused on bettering my life i plan on getting an online degree in medical billing and coding but in order to do that i have to get a job to pay for it. well if there is anything else you would like to know about me message me and we will chat i also have aim and yahoo and that is listed in my information but dont just go messaging me if i dont know who you are at least message me here and wait for a reply