I'm 44 and a father of 4 . I have 2 young sons (7 and 9)and a beautiful 9 year old daughter. I also have a 20 year old who plays football AND basketball at Oberlin College in Ohio. I work out 7 days a week , play racquetball and softball , love all sports and anything outdoors. I don't smoke , drink or take drugs of any kind. I love life and cherish every day on this earth. Working out is relaxation, sleeping is something I'll do after I'm dead , and riding my Harley is pure freedom. I run a youth football program with 800 kids in it and hope to some day leave my league in able hands and move on to work with Special Olympics. I'm a softy at heart , especially with kids . To coin the Jessicca Rabbit phrase..." I'm not bad ..I'm just drawn that way. " Drop me a line and we'll get to know each other.