We've all been stuck in a dating rut from time to time in our lives. Dating isn't easy and making a commitment to a guy you date is even harder. One of the most important things you can do to mend a bruised dating life is to change the way you think. It's easier said than done, but check out these tips that just may help!
1. Don't look for happiness in a man. Your self-esteem and self-worth are not, and have never been tied to a man. Are you going to think you're worthless because a guy cheated on you? No way! It's his loss if he's done that, not yours and you're still the fabulous person you were when you started dating that cheater. Does your man have a wandering eye? Does he ogle every woman that walks by? Well, guess what? Your self-esteem is not tied to that man's eyeballs. He's the one with the staring problem, not you.
2. Make a happiness list. Write down all the things in your life that make you happy that have nothing to do with a man. You'll be surprised to see how many ways you can be happy and enrich your life without ever relying on a man.
3. Confidence is attractive. Neediness is not. Being secure in yourself allows you to exude good vibes. Being needy and doubting yourself is going to exude negative vibes that no one is going to want to be around. You don't have to have a man to feel confident. Take a clue from the actress Jennifer Aniston. She divorced the sexiest man alive who is rumored to have cheated on her. She didn't skip a beat. She still holds her head up high and looks fabulous everywhere she goes!
4. Exercise is good for you and it feels good, too. Hit the gym at least twice a week for at least thirty minutes and you'll feel great!
5. You are a good person. Repeat this over and over several times a day. The more you repeat it, the more you'll believe it, until one day you'll realize that it's true!
