I'm learning I defy a lot of labels I've previously given myself. I enjoy calculated risk-taking. I get off on adrenaline. I'm probably the most empathetic person I know (sometimes to a fault), also one of the most open-minded. I'm not sure monogamy always works and I've given polyamory a shot. My philsophy is as long as everyone is aware of what's going on, poly is possible and can work. Lying, deceit and cheating are some of my biggest pet-peeves. I have a crazy close-knit group of friends that remind me of Melrose Place (without all the backstabbing and deciet ... so I guess really not like Melrose Place at all, heh). Sex is probably my biggest interest: having it, talking about it, listening to people's problems with it, and offering any help I can. Ultimately, I want to run an educational non-profit for all things dealing with human sexuality. Kinky and sexually open doesn't mean easy, so don't hit me up for lame sex chat, I have better things to do.