Hey Ladies: well you want to know about me...now lets see....I'm 5'6/130/skyblues/brn hair/Libra....I love to go to the lake and camp and fish....travel...thrift stores...dancing....and just enjoying company.....I have been married ounce for 23yrs and the other time 1.2yrs.....all water under bridge.

How can this be? I am divorced, hansom, and in shape. Great for 56! I have a wonderful sense of humor. Work hard. There for you when you want me to be. I can appreciate it when you need your own space and time. I have no time for arguing in a relationship. Bitterness does not become me. Why am I on this site? Perhaps you can open your eyes and heart and see me for who I am. There is no perfect applicant or person on these sites. There is no 100% perfect soul mate. Relationships are about compromise,but a work in progress. So many people on these sites are caught up in the inertia of the internet dating concept that their attention span gets shorter and shorter with each new e-mail or search attempt. Searchers are not willing to give a relationship the proper time to develop. It's, "On to the Next". Sure, we may find someone to fit 80% of what we are looking for -- or maybe even a little more or less, most time it is less due to the high goals . I'd be happy with who you are. I am willing to care deeply and perhaps some day love the person who is willing to care deeply and perhaps love me some day in return. I'm tired of games. I will try the things you like to do. I will mix with your family and friends. Are you willing to do the same with me? I would like to wake up in the morning with someone knowing they are not going to wake up with someone else another morning. I am willing to build a relationship. Are you?

I do not want perfection.. how boring that would be.. I want someone who is creative and intuitive... funny and serious...adventurous and safe...spontaneous, but orderly... a little of everything... someone who knows what I want before I know... someone who loves to give to others because it makes her feel good...not because she feels she has to or wants something in return... someone who calls just because.. .leaves notes, a quick email.. or flashes a smile ... someone who can appreciate the best life has to offer and can make do when the best is unattainable..I will do the same.....Knows how to talk w/o yelling.

I am not impressed with all the toys you might own.. I want to get to know you for who you are, not for your material possessions.. they are not important to me. Above all, I ask that you be honest and true to yourself as well as to me... that you do not play mind games.. .do not make promises you have no intention of keeping...Please be sincere....