I am 41 years old, I have 2 boys ages 21 and 15. The oldest son is in College now. He is studying for his teaching degree, chosen subject is History. Once he finishes he hopes to teach High School level History and then Coach wrestling and soccor. He was a Varsity Wrestler all 4 yrs of High school.. the last yr he was injured with a concusion just before going to State Finals. The youngest is a sweetheart, but at 15 he is still trying to figure out what his niche is in life. He's still got plenty of time!I was divorced after 18 yrs of marraige. Ex decided suddenly it was all a lie and wanted his High School sweetheart back. Talk about a Baseball bat upside the head! LOL! WEll his mid-life crisis hasn't brought him as much joy as he thought it would. He jumped into that marraige 3 months after we divorced and its been nothing but trouble since.. Oh well!On the brighter side I met a man during the final divorce proceedings that is just absolutely the most wonderful man that I could ever imagine! We have been together nearly 4 yrs now and he still treats me like I was the queen of Sheba! We bought our 1st home togehter last yr. and have been making it our special retreat from the workday grind ever since! I guess god knew all along what was to transpire! Just didn't want to spoil it by letting me in on it too soon!! LOL