I live in Virginia Beach, Virginia, yes it is a hell hole. I am a Navy wife and mother of 2 boys. Just cuz I am a Navy wife does NOT mean I sit around all day on my ass eating bon bon's and watching TV. I clean my house I manage my house and all that implies. I don't play head games. Not into drama. Can't stand drama. Being a Navy wife I have to deal with enough drama and other crap to deal with other people's drama they wanna dish out. I am not online for hook ups, meetings or anything to that effect. I am online to cure the bordem of when my chores are done and I can't sleep. Yes, I do have friends and I do network from time to time. I am Pagan or Wiccan or however you want to word it. No that does NOT mean I kill small animals for fun. I didn't wake up one morning and watch charmed going "hey I think 'being Wiccan' will be fun to scare people". I believe in all that is Wicca. I am not out to harm anyone I stick to myself the majority of the time. If anyone has a problem with my spiritual beliefs, I just tend to ignore them. I married a Redneck. Oh yeah what a great combo there LOL. He is also Pagan. He is a great husband and father. Some may think or feel differently. He defends your freedom. He is my soul mate. I knew from the beginning he was the one for all time. My kids and my family come first.