Kind of wondering what goes through some women's minds as they go through life constantly complaining that "good guys" never ask them out, or that claim "guys only want 1 thing".
Give me a break...I'm a nice guy and it just means that women who say those things don't really want a nice guy, they want a "sugar daddy" or someone who's a fool that they can convince to pay all their bills and ask for sex as infrequently as possible.
I've never thought I was much to look at, never considered myself a "great catch" because of my looks, but rather it was my sense of humor, loyalty and intelligence that made me appealing.
This week I found out that a woman from my past who always used to complain that she couldn't find a nice guy or meet Mr. Right died of an overdose...no surprise and I'm actually not that heart broken other than I'm sad to see her life end so short and so empty. At one point in my life I loved her deeply and told her so. She always told me I was a good friend, but I just wasn't her type.
She saw emotion as a weakness I guess and so for me to put that out there meant I was weak and she was tougher. I'll never figure her out or women like her, but that is perhaps why I always try to be someone's friend. A friend is better than having no one and I tried to at least be that for her.
Yeah I lead an interesting and sometimes my friends have far too much drama than I care for, but they are my friends and I try to be supportive and give good advice. In the end we all make our own choices and decisions.
Yep, she had to be tough for whatever her own justification, too bad she never let anyone in so that she could be loved and feel that she really had someone. Sometimes I'm a real hard-ass and enter where angels fear to tread, but my friends know I love them, from my actions and my words.
So ladies, is it that you really want a nice guy or you say that because you don't really know what you want? Just wondering out loud. I'm not perfect, I try my best. I'm a nice guy...but I'm no fool.
Just remember nice guys are out there and some don't lead as exciting lives as others, but think about what you really want when it's all said and done.
