why do we always have to discribe ourselfs? it shouldn't matter what you look like aslong as you have a beautiful heart on the inside. so therefore i will not discribe myself, but i will tell you about myself. i have three beautiful children who i adore the most, i work to make a living for them and myself, they have a father, but he is a dead beat dad. what i am looking for in a man is not his looks but whats on the inside, whether he will take my kids and help raise them as his own and not miss treat them. and for his to have respect for them and myself.