Well, Im called 'Tinkers' im 44 and have been married to my own PeterPan aka Mike for 8 years. My husband is only 26 :P ( work out the age gap for yourself:P) We have 4 sons, Jonathan 19, hes away at University, Nicholas 15, Benjamin 12 (just) and Joshua is 6!! Im very proud of all my sons and the way that they cope with family life as i have Terminal Cancer!! Im mainly bed-ridden but very very occassionally go out in my whellchair. I dont go out much because i dont like going out!! I have come up against some pretty harsh words from people mainly because i also have seizure's and people have a great tendancy to 'judge' without knowing the full facts:( exp.2 elderly woman in town saw me having a seizure and automatically judged me as being 'drunk & disorderly' also ppl have a bad habbit of thinking because your in a wheelchair you are automatically 'brain-dead, but as my scans show i do actually posses a working brain:P ok maybe its a bit rusty but it does work...honest :) Oh and i also have a wicked sense of humour and prefer 'Outgoing honest ppl' if you have any questions then please feel free to ask them, its better than remaining in ignorance or talking behind my back, and i dont take offence (or a gate) easy!! About my illness...well that too, i dont mind answering questions as many ppl seem to be scared of the word 'Cancer' it isnt catching you know ....hmm well i dont think it is LOL