I'm old, literally older than dirt. I run my own business where I make all the decisions...I don't like to think of myself as a control freak but I've heard my detractors speculate if they'd made choices for themselves or if I had been pulling their strings all along. I like to think that by setting things up just right things will run smoothly by themselves and I don't have to micro-manage everything constantly. I'm basically a nice guy, but I have a vengeful streak to me. I'm often eager to draw people to me, yet I remain distant...usually my peeps will talk to me and it takes me so long to get back to them (if ever) that they wonder if I exist at all! I do have a son who is the world to me, but I still get along great with his mom (now happily married to some carpenter) so there's no baby's mama-drama.