Cyborg Ex Father In Law
About a month back, I went to my 8 year old son, David's birthday party. I don't really care to have to go over to my ex in laws house mainly because past the normal demeanor they show everyone, they are really a fucked up family. Oliver, my ex FIL talks in this monotoned voice and structers his sentences in the manner of Rain Man. Come to think of it, I have never put Oliver in the human category. He never displays any emotion what so ever. Their middle child, Ed speaks in the same monotoned voice, he just structers his sentences better. The onlt child they had who turned out even half way normal was Bill.. And he was an accident. My ex mother in law, Peg still lives in the 50's where women had a place and stayed in it. I can remember talking to her during a seperation with my ex Tim. I told her that sex with Tim repulsed me now, I had no interest in it, he wanted me to do attrocious things, he liked to cause me pain, he liked to force himself on me. And because of all that, I couldn't care less if I never had sex with him again. Pegs reply was "Maybe you should just do it (sex) and maybe you can get back in the habit of it."........................
............. Ok, lemme get this straight. She wanted me to force myself to have sex with Tim because Tim wanted sex. Yeah, right. See, one reason Tim and I are divorced now is because Tim wanted a woman like his mother. I am not like his mother. Anyways, I called a couple of weeks before Davids party to see what he wanted for his birthday, Oliver answered the phone, I never want to have to talk to him so I asked for Peg, he tells me Peg is busy and asked what I wanted, I said I just wanted to see what David wanted for his birthday and to see how he is doing. Oliver says "He has ADD, just like you." he saya it in this accusing tone as if I deliberatly gave my child ADD, I wanted to say " Oh yeah... That was my gift to him for his 2nd birthday.. I was going to give him a head cold but you know, ADD just lasts longer.". So I ask "Well, other than that is he ok?" "No" Oliver says "He lies and steals, just like you." I wanted to say either "Oliver, he has not lived with me in 3 years.. He isn't picking up stealing from me." or "Well, let's hope he doesn't pick up his fathers bad habits, otherwise he'll be a lying, stealing, spouse abusing little prick.". I merely said "I don't steal." Oliver said "You don't?" and hung up. Peg called to apologize... Peg. Not Oliver.
At Davids party Oliver so rudely asks me and my mom had any mental illness in our family. I wanted to say "Yes, my sons grandfather is a retard." One of these days I'm going to quit being so polite and let him have it. My ex husband was at the party and stared at my tits the whole time, even made a comment about them. I hope Oliver dies a long, painful death.
