So here is the thing... how to come up with the right things to say in order to attract the right attention? YOUR attention ;-) Answer is: be honest, speak from the heart but take a pit-stop by the mind. It is important that heart and mind be aligned after all I don't want to fall for someone to later on find out that we are going in different directions in life.

I am willing to open my heart in a few paragraphs hoping that I can speak to the heart of that my-special man who's looking for the same that I am. I am ready for a committed and honest relationship to share great moments together and build a solid foundation for a great partnership built on love and mutual respect.

I believe that a great couple must have fun together, speak the truth, look at the same direction, and be there for each other no matter what. I need someone who can be a team player and who wants a team player. Someone who knows how to talk about differences, issues, and difficulties in a mature fashion, someone who will understand me when I say "I love you too much to engage on a fight". I'd rather be happy than to win a discussion.

I am passionate about everything that I do. I am independent to some extend... I still love a man who can hold my hand in public, who can cook a good bbq, capable of fixing few things around the house (don't worry I have HOA but it's good to know you can)... someone who can open doors, and be a gentleman. You are productive, sweet, not a gym-maniac but in shape as I do work out regularly and I look good in jeans.... and you should too.

Family is important as it says a lot about a person. Of course I understand that there are many shades of gray in a family: there are the easy ones, the difficult ones, the troubled ones... but the foundation must be a good one. If you have kids I will love them as my own. If you are divorced hopefully you have a normal ex ;-)

I work long hours on weekdays... meaning: I do love my job and you won't be difficult if I can't just drop everything for happy hour. I love road trips, far away trips, long walks, quiet nights at home, movies now and then, outdoors. I don't follow any specific religion but I do believe in God and we talk on a daily basis... and He is the one who told me to come here and find YOU! )