I am me, just me and only me. There is only one Tanada and that's me!! I don't go for any kind of drama, B.S. or the "fad" of the minute. I am a hippy born too late. I want to find my own little corner of the world and fill it with the person who can give me all the peace, love and happines i can stand! Hey what else would I be doing in a bar??? LOL BUT READ THIS IF NOTHING ELSE: I can not stand people who need thier egos stroked. If you want someone who will constantly tell you how hot, cool, fun, nice, whatever you are: KEEP ON LOOKING!!! I am not that girl. I will give compliments when they are due. Not to make you feel good. (Unless we have a sugar-daddy arrangement...lol) Confidence is a huge turn on. So dont beg for compliments. ATTENTION!!! PLEASE READ THIS.. I am not interested in meeting anyone who needs constant upkeep, male or female. I have a life I like. I do not sit in front of my computer 24/7 waiting breathlessly for a message from whomever. I have 3 little ppl who come first and formost. I'd like to meet a person close to me or willing to get close to me as I am not into long distance relationships. I know this makes me sound selfish, but oh well. I guess I'll live. Once a person gets to know me, they usuallly think it is worth it.