Sex is AS MUCH ABOUT OPENING yourself and showing your sexuality TO ANOTHER HUMAN BEING as it IS ABOUT ALLOWING THEM TO SHOW YOU theirs...If you WANT YOUR LOVER TO EXPAND their horizons WITH YOU IT IS VITAL you give them the same courtesy of HEARING THEIR SECRETS without making THEM FEEL CREEPY ABOUT IT...Intoxication like SEXUAL EUPHORIA is the PRIVILEGE of the HUMAN SPECIES...Sexual FRENZY IS OUR COMPENSATION for the tedious MOMENTS WE MUST SUFFER in the passage of LIFE...a perfect MELDING IN OTHER WORDS of TWO PEOPLE JOINED together SEAMLESSLY UNITED INTO BEING ONE...HUGS KISSES AND SO MUCH LOVE.