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Hi to everyone or anyone reading my once in awhile blogs. I use this as a platform to reach out to my fam and friends that I care so deeply about.    Trust me this is not just random blogging this is a very serious matter that should be visited.

 

I am a dedicated Christian who loves God my Creator and all of his Glory including his Son who came to us from anicent times as an adult to a baby to have the human experience (so he would understand what it felt like to be and live like a human with thoughts and feelings except he was pure and sinless)  and to then sacrifice his life for all who believe in him so that we may have eternal life forever once this Earth and Heaven are destroyed because it will happen and it will happen so fast. The believers will be raptured up while the non believers will be stunned  and in shock that is truly happening and try to change their minds at the last minute. Well it will be too late by that time and that truly sucks because we've had time for centuries to be on the side of the Lord!  But no one  wants to read the (The Living Word) it's an ancient book to many people because it is old or its been written by mortal men and how can it be true  but it is God who spoke to the appointed apostles through the Holy Spirit Instead lets just see what some of the great philosophers and scientists have to say, they were so busy proving that God does not exist. First and foremost  we forget we are nothing but dust and turn back to dust when we die God is eternal and it takes faith not sight to believe and to trust in the one who created you and those brilliant philosophers who some are dead and gone. The bible was not meant to be picked apart and analayzed what is fact and what is not fact it is a book of instruction for daily living and it was created only because Adam and Eve were disobedient to God and ate from the tree of knowledge but just like man today we are stubborn hardheaded and do not listen so we pay for our actions and that is exactly what happened. You and I practically grew up knowing about this story except it is not a fairytale story or fable it is a true story that actually took place.  Satan is very real he is one of God's Angels unfortunately he was a knucklehead and was vain, and jealous of his father's power and wanted to rule the Heaven and Earth take over Jehovah's aka God's Kingdom so basically he is a troublemaker so he was powerful the part I don't understand is why you ignore God's warning Adam and Eve when he clearly told you if you eat or touch this fruit you will surely die, that would've been it for me like you got it God! not trying to die anytime soon when I have this paradise surrounding me. Nope they had to listen to the witty sly sneaking persuading Lucifer the Father of all lies and manipulation telling them that they could eat from that tree and that God didn't want them to have power and knowledge they could become Gods WTF seriously? so of course they fell for the oakey doke  SMH whyyyyyyy  once they ate from the tree of knowledge of course they were able to see everything and sin came into exsistence. God was not angry but upset and disappointed with his creation because they disobeyed him so just like any parent would do, would be to discipline them i know a lot of people are like why couldnt he have just punished them only  he could have just done away with Adam and Eve and Satan all together but his love is so strong for his creation he wanted to give them another chance but they had to struggle to make ends meet no more paradise they had to fend for their food toil and slave like we do today but God did give them clothing and said they could hunt the animals for food isn't that sad how a perfect life was shot down just like that in a matter of seconds so you Devil worshippers I woudn't be so quick to worship someone who cause you and I all this grief today he is the reason we die, he is the reason we get sick , he is the reason we get old , he is the reason there is so much heartache in the world. Having money and a fancy lifestyle doesn't always make you happy you still end up wanting more or losing it all and then what?  People always are quick to blame God for everything that goes wrong in their life its not always the case it is usually the choices we make to then later suffer for it or suffer once you've made the choice either good or bad.   If you actually read the bible you can clearly see people like us today and what happened to them and what will happen to us. God could have  controlled us but instead he still gave us a chance by giving us free will to make choices on our own because he loves us that much.  Everytime something goes wrong can your parents fix it or do they ? no  you have to deal with the consequences or fix them they are here to support you and that is what God is doing he knows what each person can bare,  we learn through our pains and hardships and sometimes we don't we keep doing the same crap with the same results.  Satan is ruling this planet if you didn't know this by now and God allowed it because he knows that the world is damaged from sin and it will never be new and sinless again unless we die and start all over so that is why Jesus the Christ came here just for that purpose to take on all of man's sins and become the blood atonement so we have an opportunity to live the way we were once suppose to live in the Garden of Eden where all was bliss and responsiblities were not hard but fun we were never intended to slave over anything or to work for anyone.  Once we were born we were already doomed and sin filled not of our own doing but because of the one mistake that ruined it for all mankind so we must go through our shit then die.  Jesus said he would come back to claim his children and to also get rid of Satan for good.  That is why we must start living right and stop paying attention to the things of the world you see the news, you see the children you see all the suffering and don't let people who put on acts fool you that they are happy yes if they are drugged up or drunk that's no way to live. God definitely wants us to enjoy life even through our messes but we must also  be serious about our salvation too.  You are either a believer or you are not there is no in between or maybe.  So many people push this topic aside and go on with their daily living not even concerned for their exsistence once Armagedon comes around because they ether don't care or don't believe it.     I know I have been babling forever and I am definitely not  a grammar scholar  but I am trying to get a major point across.  So don't spend so much time trying to figure out well what doe's the Great Scholars say? They say what Satan want's them to say.  He also gave all these fearless leaders that we read about in our history books the power to do the horrific and unspeakable acts that they did and it's still going on stronger than ever Satan hates us even you devil worhippers and he is playing on your emotions so you can bow down to him if you want he can't save you and he sure as heck can't save himself. He wants to take down as many people he can he want's to turn everyone away from God that was always his goal he doesn't love you he hates you ! He will come at us through our daily living, our homes, our jobs our finances our health you can't see him either.  So my lovely people we have been in a Spiritual warfare you may or may not believe it but it is true and once again if you read your bible or even read the bible online.  I will tell you this you can not trust all of the Religious Leaders that is why you must read the bible and you must pray for direction and ask God to help give you the wisdom and to not depend on man. Remember they are only dust too they are not God be careful the Devil is a master manipulator.

Fubar , Being Top Acheiver , free blasts (I love those LOL) Getting The Crown, the bling sales, the comments, The GMP parties, the Weekly Challenges, the picture rates and compliments all these things will shortly pass away things that keep your mind occupied and focused off the real picture. These things will not save you and let me add this if you are a believer and you agree with me then that is super awesome and you are good you understand what we are dealing with but if you don't and you are looking at this or avoiding this all together well that is your choice  that is one thing God will not force anyone to come to him but the only way you and I go to him his through his son Jesus Christ.

 

Jesus the Christ who was once a servant to man became the sacrifice will come back glorious as King of Kings and Lord of Lords  and when that happens it will be too late to change your beliefs or your attitudes and final acceptance of him because right now he is giving us all the opportunity to get ourselves right  so many people say "well he's been coming for a long time now he shouldve have been here" taking it is so lightly and in a joking manner well my friends there is a reason why we have not seen him he is waiting on us  he doesn't want us to die without being saved  He wants to save as many people as much as possible because he loves us but Satan doesn't want that so he will do all he can to distract us and it seems to be working for the most part :(    

 

Because of my belief I may lose friends, colleagues,  family members but I will not lose my faith in the Lord.  No I don't want to lose anyone I love my family and friends. I also want to see you all again in the next life.

So If you are not saved it's never too late

 

How do I accept Jesus as my Savior?
Through prayer, invite Jesus into your heart to become your personal Lord and Savior.
  1. "For with the heart (core being) man believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation." ( Romans 10:10)
  2. "For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved." ( Romans 10:13)

 

 

GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND MAY HE HAVE MERCY ON US ALL


Hi Fu family and friends

I love finding information that I can share which helps me and could help you especially with our daily living hopefully you will find the time to read them in my blogs.

So today on the InTouch Ministries website (www.intouch.org) with Pastor Charles Stanley the daily devotional is  on "Obstacles to Forgiving Ourselves"


Every human being has a sin problem. We lose our temper, make mistakes, and harbor selfish motives, but God offers forgiveness for everyone who will accept it. And yet many believers find it impossible to forgive themselves. Why?

First, we struggle with self-forgiveness at times because we find it difficult to accept God’s forgiveness. Guilt can overshadow the enormous gift of pardon and restoration that our Father has freely provided. We may think, What I’ve done is just too terrible for God to forgive me, but that’s never true. (See Titus 2:14.)


Second, personal disappointment can prevent us from forgiving ourselves. If we have ridiculously high, self-imposed standards for our behavior, failure to live up to them can leave us feeling disappointed and unworthy of forgiveness.


Third, seeing the results of our sin can keep guilt alive in our mind. That is, if our wrong actions produce a tangible negative consequence, we may find it hard to forgive ourselves. 


Are you harboring remorse for a sin from your past? God’s forgiveness is available now (1 John 1:9). Christ gave His life to make you free, so don’t willingly stay in chains. You’re invited forgive yourself for what God has already pardoned (Gal. 5:1).

 

I am so Grateful to my Creator thank you God for your forgiveness, compasion , mercy, and love.

 

 Just a little side note

Remember, God can use anybody to spread his word, no matter who they might be , no one is perfect so we have to be careful to not criticize or focus on the person themselves but on God's message to you. It may help you out in any situation that you may be experiencing. ;)

 

God Bless you all !


 

 

 

Hi everyone

I wanted to share this with you if you take the time to read my blogs.   Also to say  "Thank you to the ones who always seem to buy me bling without ever asking for something in return"  I truly appreciate you. May God continue to bless you.  I hope this story moves you. :)

 

 

Title: Asking for nothing     Written By:   Shannon Dyess   

 

Abraham Lincoln looked up from the business of his presidential desk to see an elderly lady shuffling into his office carefully embracing a basket. 

 “How can I help you Madam?” queried the President in politeness.  

The silver haired citizen responded, “Mr. President, I did not come to ask you a favor for me or another.  I heard that you greatly enjoy cookies, so I have brought you these today.”

Lincoln was momentarily speechless, and an uninvited tear made its way down his tired face. Mr. Lincoln gently responded, “My good woman, your thoughtful and unselfish deed greatly moves me.  Since I became President, thousands have come into my office but you are the first to come asking no favors.”


How long has it been since you knelt alone in the Lord’s presence just to fellowship with Him and to praise Him not only His many favors, but also, for who He is?


One song writer penned it this way:  


             “I didn’t come here to ask you for anything: 

               I just came to talk with you Lord.

               You’ve answered a million prayers or more

               That I forgot to thank you for;

               I just came to talk with you Lord.”


May you and I bring great pleasure to the grand heart of our gracious Lord by often entering His presence without a favor to ask and only praise and adoration to share.  He is worthy of all praise! 

 

This and many more articles can be found on bbnradio.org



For those who will read this

 

 

"Let not your heart be troubled, you believe in God, believe in me also.

In my Father's house are many mansions, if it were not so I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you and if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to myself, that where I am there you may be also."

 

John 14  1-3

 

Bless you all

My heart is filled with Joy especially when I read this in my FB feed yesterday

 

 

[Chris Tomlin the Christian Singer quoted scripture for all to see]

 

"If you declare with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord" and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead you will be saved.

 

Romans 10:9   

 

I think we are so caught up and blinded by the materialistic things of this world that give us pleasure and satisify us but only temporarily. I think that a majority of us already know the truth and do not want to give up these things that are not pleasing in the eyes of God so we either turn away and ignore or we worship other false so called gods and idols, or was told untruths and was convinced he doesn't exsist or we simply just decide to not believe anymore because of things that happen or have happened in our lives or in the lives of our loved ones. That would lead us to believe that God would take care of because hey ...he is our creator afterall and he can doing anything he chooses so why would he let things happen they way they do that hurt us?  Well there is an explanation  and it is all written in that book called The Holy Bible that hardly anyone reads unless they are a believer and some of us believers don't even read the bible like we should. That book was intended to help us face all the things that we would encounter and endure from the beginning of our birth towards the end of our lives.  First off God never intended for any of this suffering or dying to take place. He created the perfect paradise world for man to live in forever and to have that close bond with God, Jesus and the Angels.   So many people just cant wrap their heads around the fact that this took place but you can believe and put your hope in non fictional Characters made up by man?? and have collector items and wear them on your shirts i  mean there is nothing wrong with that but to totally disregard your Creator is tragic but heres the thing God is real and he is your Creator right along with Jesus the Christ and the Angels whether you believe it or not he even tells us this in the bible,  we are all in that bible... our characteristics and so forth. God did create us to have brilliant minds and there are Great minds throughout history and currently that don't even believe he exsists.  I watched a great and inspiring movie based on exactly this and it is called  "GOD IS (not) DEAD" A Christian versus an Atheist Professor.   Talking about intense    (I will upload the trailer in my video section)

Please watch it or don't  it's up to you.   Ok well that is all for this blog. I will blog about the bible and why things are the way they are.

 

God bless you all

xoxox

 




 

God's Promise

 

God didn't promise days without pain,

laughter without sorrow or sun without rain, 

but God did promise strength for the day,

comfort for the tears and a light for the way,

and for all who believe in his Kingdom above,

he answers their faith with everlasting love

 

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( a beautiful poem written by an Unknown writer )



FOR THE ONES WHO READ THIS I HOPE YOU ENJOY  -  SOMETIMES YOU SEE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU REALIZE YOU ARE TRULY BLESSED

(not worried about spelling or puncuation you get the gist of it)

 

THANK YOU LORD FOR CREATING ME

 

THANK YOU FOR WAKING ME UP THIS MORNING

THANK YOU FOR THE AIR THAT I BREATHE

THANK YOU FOR MY SCALP AND THE HAIR THAT COMES WITH IT

THANK YOU FOR MY BRAIN WHICH I KNOW I HAVE NOT FULLY TAPPED INTO

THANK YOU FOR MY SKIN AND FOR THE COLOR OF MY SKIN THAT I AM NOT ASHAMED OF

THANK YOU FOR MY EYEBROWS EVEN WHEN I MESS THEM UP

THANK YOU FOR MY EYELASHES EVEN IF THEY ARE NOT LONG

THANK YOU FOR MY EYEBALLS AND MY EYE SIGHT SO THAT I CAN CAPTURE MOSTLY BEAUTIFUL THINGS

THANK YOU FOR MY CHEEKBONES EVEN THOUGH I SOMETIMES  PUT TOO MUCH BLUSH ON THEM

THANK YOU FOR MY EARS SO THAT I CAN HEAR

THANK YOU FOR MY NOSE SO THAT I CAN BREATHE

THANK YOU FOR MY SENSE OF SMELL EVEN WHEN SOME THINGS DON'T SMELL TOO GOOD BUT MOSTLY THINGS DO

THANK YOU FOR MY LIPS AND TONGUE

THANK YOU FOR MY TASTEBUDS SO I CAN APPRECIATE GOOD FOOD AND WINE

THANK YOU FOR MY CHIN WITH THE TINY CLEFT IN THE MIDDLE

THANK YOU FOR MY BEAUTY MARK ABOVE MY LIP

THANK YOU FOR MY NECK, THANK YOU FOR MY SHOULDERS AND LONG ARMS, THANK YOU FOR MY WRISTS AND ALL 1O FINGERS THAT ARE STILL FUNCTIONAL.  THANK YOU FOR MY MOUNTAINS  CALLED BREASTS I ONCE DID NOT HAVE BUT BEGGED YOU FOR INCREASE AND FINDING THE PERFECT BRA IS A CHALLENGE NOW BUT I DON'T MIND LOL

THANK YOU FOR MY STOMACH I APPRECIATE IT EVEN IF IT IS NOT A SIX PACK IT JIGGLES  :P

THANK YOU FOR MY THIGHS AND LONG LEGS THAT ALLOW ME TO WALK LONG DISTANCES  BUT NOT REALLY LOL

THANK YOU FOR MY BUTT THAT MY MOM USED TO CALL FLAT THAT'S CHANGED SINCE LIVING IN GA LOL

THANK YOU FOR THE SPECIAL AREA THAT SHOULD BE ALWAYS TREATED LIKE A TREASURE CHEST AND IS SACRED AND THAT COULD POSSIBLY CREATE LIFE NOT SURE IT'S IN THE CARDS AND THAT'S  OKAY

THANK YOU FOR MY KNEES THAT ARE STILL MINE EVEN WHEN THEY GAVE ME FITS AS A CHILD

THANK YOU FOR MY BIG SOFT BEAUTIFUL FEET LOL  EVEN THOUGH IT IS HARD TO FIND SIZE 11/12 IN THE STORES BUT ONLINE IS GETTING BETTER  I CAN STILL SHOW THEM OFF

THANK YOU FOR MY HEELS AND TOES  THEY ARE ALL THERE LOL

THANK YOU FOR THIS WONDERFUL BLESSING WHICH I KNOW WILL COME TO PASS BUT I KNOW I WILL HAVE A PERFECT  PAIN FREE BODY  WHEN YOU RETURN

 

I LOVE YOU AND...


THANK YOU LORD FOR CREATING ME 

 


Hi Fu Fam and Friends,

 

I really wasn't  looking forward to writting a blog and of all blogs especially this one which crushes my heart. I'm not sure who all is aware about one of our very own Mike Hardway who past away early this morning in his sleep due to a seizure.  

Apparently he has suffered them many times before but this one would not allow him  to wake up :(      Here is information for anyone who would like to send sympathy cards or flowers to the family

 

His sister's address (The last couple of months he stayed with her)

Mrs. Dee Dee McCracken 

231 Lighthouse View Drive  Stevensville, MD  21666

The funeral home where the service will take place (some time next week , details still pending)

Fellows Healthbine Funeral Home Kent Island  106 Shamrock Road, Chester MD  21619

 

~While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil~  John Taylor

 

R.I.P Mike     Feb 16, 1957 ~August 20, 2011

 


WELL FUBIES,   (hopefully you can read this , and I did not use spellcheck either as long as you get it... thats the point ;)

♥ITS BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE I BLOGGED...BUT WANTED TO SAY HOW BLESSED I AM TO BE HERE. MY WONDERFUL CAR PAID IN FULL DECIDED TO SHUT DOWN ON ME (the FUEL PUMP) WHILE ENROUTE TO BIBLE STUDY, EVERYDAY I TRAVEL AT LEAST 27 MILES TO WORK ON A MAJOR HIGHWAY, FILLED WITH ACCIDENTS DAILY  UGH....♥

♥TODAY AFTER WORK I HEADED HOME TO PICK UP MY MOM TO GO TO BIBLE STUDY , WE ARE DRIVING OUT OF THE NEIGHBORHOOD AND RIGHT BEFORE WE HEAD OUT ON THE MAJOR HIGHWAY THE CAR JUST STOPS...OH LORD HAVE MERCY I YELLED WE STOPPED DEAD IN THE ROAD, NO CAR DIRECTLY BEHIND US OR INSIGHT , I IMMEDIATELY WORRY ABOUT MY MOM BECAUSE SHE HAS CONGESTIVE HEART FAILURE , BUT HAS BEEN A SURVIVOR FOR 10 YEARS NOW THAT IS A BLESSING WITHIN ITSELF. WE STILL HAVE TO GO TO THE DOCTORS A MAJORITY OF THE TIME, BUT ITS TO MAKE SURE EVERY THING IS COOL WITH HER COUMADIN LEVELS (thats for another blog) &heats;

♥ WITHIN A COUPLE OF MINUTES TWO KIND GENTLEMEN STOPPED AND GUESSED WHAT THE PROBLEM COULD BE, ONE HAPPENED TO BE A MECHANIC (RIDDING ON A SCOOTER:p might get me 1 "Watch out Sweet Chuck!") AND A CAB DRIVER WHO GAVE US A NUMBER TO CALL FOR A MECHANIC/TOW HE WAS ALSO WILLING TO GIVE MY MOM AND I A RIDE FREE OF CHARGE, BUT AT THAT TIME WE HAD ALREADY PLACED A CALL FOR A TOW TRUCK, THE MEN WAITED WITH US UNTIL THE TOW TRUCK ARRIVED , ANGELS ALL AROUND US I SWEAR, THE GUY CHARGED A SMALL TOW FEE AND AGREED TO TOW IT TO A PLACE WHERE IS BROTHER OWNS THE SHOP AND WILL FIX WHAT EVER NEEDS TO BE FIXED AND IF WE ARE NOT SATISIFIED WITH THE PRICING HE WILL TOW OUR CAR BACK TO THE HOUSE FREE OF CHARGE. ♥

NOW YOU TELL ME..MY HEAVENLY FATHER WAS WATCHING OUT FOR ME AND MOM, IT COULD HAVE BEEN ANOTHER WAY...WHERE IM ENROUTE TO WORK OR ON MY WAY HOME DRVING OVER 80 MPH OR MORE (I do tend to speed at times, gotta keep up with everyone)I COULD HAVE BEEN STRANDED ALL ALONE ON ONE OF THE BACKROADS I USUALLY TAKE WITH NO GOOD PHONE RECEPTION DON'T HAVE VERIZON, SO I DON'T HAVE MY PEEPS WITH ME EVERYWHERE I GO LOL (hopefully you got that inside joke) BUT THE POINT IS I GIVE THANKS TO MY LORD  EVERYDAY FROM THE MINUTE I WAKE UP AND WHEN I REST MY HEAD. ♥  

♥ I AM DEFINITELY NOT A SAINT & YOU FOLKS KNOWS THIS BUT A WRETCHED SOUL WHO TRIES TO BRING  A SMILE OR LAUGHTER TO ANYONE WHO I COME ACROSS, I TRY MY BEST TO LOVE EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT AND I AM TRULY THANKFUL FOR WHAT I DO AND DO NOT HAVE.  SINCE I COULD NOT MAKE IT TO BIBLESTUDY MY TESTIMONY IS FOR YOU hehehe ♥

One of my good friends found this on MSN, I thought I would post it here...So which love type are you? me personally I am the "The Negotiator" (1) THE EXPLORER: You know the type: Explorers crave adventure and are willing to take risks. Highly curious, creative, energetic, spontaneous, they have many interests — from hiking and spelunking to theater and reading. Famous examples: John F. Kennedy, Princess Diana, Angelina Jolie. Under the influence: The Explorer's behavior is largely affected by the brain chemical dopamine, which is a key player in our experience of pleasure and novelty. Longs for: A playmate. Bonds well with: Other Explorers. If you are an Explorer: My advice is to go slowly. Because you're so impulsive, you can get romantically involved too fast. And because you hate confrontation, you risk bolting from a relationship that could prove fantastic. If you find someone you are genuinely interested in, check your inclination to go out with others, and focus your energy on him or her. If you're dating one: Be prepared to live this romance one day at a time. Remain flexible, and know that for your partner, "dullness is a misdemeanor," as novelist Ethel Wilson astutely put it. (2)THE BUILDER: You know the type: Typically conventional, these women and men are honorable and loyal; cautious without being afraid; calm; social; popular; and good at managing people, networking, and building family and community. Drawn to schedules and rules, they are also detail oriented, thorough, conscientious, and dependable. Famous examples: George Washington, Colin Powell, Tiger Woods, Jennifer Aniston, Queen Elizabeth. Under the influence: The defining neurochemical in Builders is serotonin, which modulates moods like aggression, anger, and calm. Longs for: A helpmate. Bonds well with: Other Builders. If you are a Builder: Don't let your taste for plans and schedules get in the way of trying new things on a date ... unless you are going out with another Builder. Brag a little (Builders can be too modest) and, despite your love of socializing with the gang, take some time to be alone with your romantic interest. Your tendency to be protective will be appreciated, but make sure you don't appear controlling. If you're dating one: Remember that Builders like to be concrete and to revel in the details. They're attracted to others who are orderly and calm, so when you make plans, stick to them. According to my research, Builders are the most likely to seek a lifelong partner. (3)THE DIRECTOR: You know the type: "One ought to hold on to one's heart; for if one lets it go, one soon loses control of the head, too." So wrote Nietzsche, and if you are a Director, you will relate. Directors are analytical and logical, straightforward, decisive, tough minded, focused, and good at rule-based and spatial skills like mechanics, math, and music. They also tend to be ambitious and competitive, as well as emotionally contained, even aloof. Yet these are the men and women who rush into a burning building to save a stranger. Famous examples: Albert Einstein, Donald Trump, Hillary Clinton, Margaret Thatcher. Under the influence: Testosterone (we think of it as the male sex hormone, but women have it too) is especially active in shaping the Director's personality. Longs for: A mind mate. Bonds well with: Negotiators. If you are a Director: You like to be in control and tend to date with determination, but if you can be patient and let things unfold naturally, it will help you avoid scaring off possible romance. And while you may regard expressing your emotions as a weakness, the other person is likely to take your restraint as a sign that you are cold, secretive, or uninterested. So share your feelings. If you are dating one: Remember that he or she will respond best if you are logical, accurate, and clear. Don't criticize yourself (many Directors regard this as pathetic), and if you want to intrigue your partner, pursue topics of substance rather than small talk. (4)THE NEGOTIATOR: You know the type: Negotiators are imaginative, intuitive, empathetic, and emotionally expressive, and have good verbal and social skills. Most strikingly, these people see the big picture with all the options. Famous examples: Bill Clinton, Gandhi, Carla Bruni-Sarkozy, Sex and the City's Carrie Bradshaw. Under the influence: Estrogen (the so-called female sex hormone, though, again, it's found in both genders) plays an important role in the Negotiator's character. Longs for: A soul mate. Bonds well with: Directors (no wonder Hillary and Bill are still together). If you are a Negotiator: Watch out for your inclination to be so diplomatic that you appear spineless. And avoid drowning your date in a verbal deluge. If you have met someone you like, don't overthink the situation, endlessly going over the pros and cons. Ultimately it's important for you not to settle for anything but a deeply meaningful, authentic relationship. If you're dating one: Keep in mind that Negotiators aren't always direct, so read between the lines. Avoid being competitive with them. And don't hesitate to talk about yourself: These people love hearing about what you're thinking and feeling. Above all, they will fall for you if you stimulate their imagination. The truth is, while certain personalities may be best suited to each other, it doesn't mean that other matches can't work. I've just completed a study with three fellow scientists on men and women who reported still being madly in love after an average of 21 years of marriage. We found that their brain scans showed high activity in regions associated with romantic passion and attachment — key no matter what personality type you are. So to those who are jaded about finding a mate, clichéd as it may sound, I urge you to keep an open heart. We are wired to find love.
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