Daysi XxDuKeSxX's blog: "That cool one!?"

When I was younger I always wanted to be that cool parent. The one that all your kids friends wanted to hang out at your house because you were just like really cool. You know the type. But then as I got older I realized 'the cool parent' wasnt cool because everyone hung at at their house...they were cool because they let the other kids get away with stuff that their parents wouldnt let them get away with. And I thought. I don't want to be the cool parent. And i dont want my kids hanging out at 'the cool parents' house. So then I thought. Maybe I'll be that 'Cool Aunt' that one that her nieces and nephews can come to when their parents "just wont listen." I have one niece that comes to me about everything. She talks to me about alot. Things that she's worried about or things that just PISS HER OFF. I never wanted to be the aunt that ran to the parents everytime you heard something about their kid. I wanted them to be able to trust me and know that their secret was safe. Just to back up a little I have 3 nieces and 3 nephews. And that one niece is the only one that comes to me. One time when she was 15 she tried to get me to let her use my vape. And I told her no that I might be the cool aunt but I'm not that aunt. And her response was "umm you kinda are." So that hit me like a reality check to the face. But now 2 of my nieces are about to be 21. And that one niece still comes to me every now and again. Well recently she came to me about my other niece. They were previously living together and the other niece is kinda messy compared to the first niece that's very mature and takes care of her messes. She comes to me about how messy her cousin is and how she dont know if she can handle it. Well she told me something recently that part of me feels like needs to be brought up to my sister about my other niece. May be dangerous. But like I said earlier I never wanted to be that Aunt that ran to the parents. And she is almost 21. So she can make her own decisions. But it scares me. Because she may be about to be 21 but shes young at heart like myself. So she gets taken advantage of easily. Oh yeah my first niece told me not to say anything that her cousin wants everyone to get their own opinion of the guy shes dating and not because of his past. So my question is. What do I do? Do I go to my sister or do I wait for her to make the right decision? Help.