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ERASE RACISM! A BLACK DUDE WALKS INTO A CAFE EARLY ONE MORNING AND NOTICES HE'S THE ONLY BLACK ONE THERE AS HE SAT DOWN HE NOTICED A WHITE DUDE SAT BEHIND HIM, THE WHITE DUDE SAID "COLOURED PEOPLE AINT ALLOWED IN HERE" . THE BLACK DUDE REPLIED... "WHEN I WAS BORN I WAS BLACK WHEN I GREW UP I WAS BLACK WHEN I'M SICK I'M BLACK WHEN I GO IN THE SUN I'M BLACK WHEN I'M COLD I'M BLACK AND WHEN I DIE I'M BLACK. BUT YOU MATE... WHEN YOU WERE BORN YOU WERE PINK WHEN YOUR'E SICK YOUR'E GREEN WHEN YOU STAY IN THE SUN YOUR'E RED WHEN YOUR'E COLD YOU TURN BLUE AND WHEN YOU DIE YOU TURN "PURPLE." "AND YET YOU HAVE THE NERVE TO CALL ME COLOURED" THE BLACK DUDE TURNED BACK AROUND AND THE WHITE DUDE WALKED AWAY. COPY THIS INTO YOUR BLOG AND HELP ERASE RACISM

Many of us don't truely know what love is..Or appreciate the true meaning. Maybe both in some situations. "I love you" gets tossed around ALL the time on a daily basis from people who don't even know what it means. I'm not talking about when you really like someone, and you think you love them, things don't work out and then you forget everything about them like they never existed. That's not love, not even close to it. I mean TRUE love. The love that you have for a person that's so strong it tears you upside when you see the other person unhappy. That no matter what the circumstance is you put their feelings before yours. That you always want to work things out because you can't imagine how it would be if you didn't. You would do anything not to let that person go. You can't imagine them with anyone else because you know they're the one for you. You prove in actions- not words how much their love means to you. When you love someone that person is constantly on your mind- from morning, all throughout the day, and at night. You want to do "the little things" because they mean the most. You want to appreciate the things they do for you, and you do. You do things for them "just because". You need to hear their voice before you go to sleep. When you see them, your hearts complete. It's the ability to be yourself and let your guards down. TRUE LOVE is giving a person the ability to DESTROY you but trusting them not to. Let's face reality though, Love isn't always going to be full of bliss, and passion. There are going to be fights, If there wasn't any kind of fighting it's not a healthy relationship. There will be some jealousy. There will be "that ex" that you know they loved, or a crazy ex that wants to ruin everything. There will be tears. There will be words that shouldn't of been exchanged, but were out of anger. There will be pain. IF IT WASN'T LOVE, it WOULDN'T hurt. LOVE does hurt sometimes, but TRUE love overcomes that. What i'm trying to say is that no one's perfect. And I know I say that ALL the time to every one but it's true. Sometimes people look and strive so much for perfection that they're never going to find someone for them. It doesn't exist. Everyone has made mistakes. We all have lied. We all have done things in the past. In order to build lasting relationships with people we need to all realize that even though it is the past, it will play a part in future relationships. It's hard to trust someone after you've been hurt all your life. We let these things push away people we care about. Why don't we just hold on when we find that one exception? Hold onto the person you love.. You can never take love for granted.. & What's meant to be...will be...always.

I happened to come across this mumm called,Why Do Women Love Assholes?It inspired me to write this blog so I will break it down to you like this. 1.The Nice Guy. He is everything that a woman thinks she wants but is not attracted to her.Women will always chew you up & spit you out.You always paying for the gifts,meals,& tickets & get no appreciation from them. For women,if you're going out with a guy of this nature,you have it made but if you have a conscience,you feel bad when you terribly dump him. 2.Mr.Average. Sometimes you're a nice guy & sometimes you're not.It depends on the woman of nature.What it actually means is that you always want what you can't have. For women,if he treats you with kindness & respect,he behaves like The Nice Guy.If he doesn't care about you,he will treat you like Mr.Asshole. 3.Mr.Asshole Mr.Asshole is the most sucessful with women.Let's call it the J.R.Ewing syndrome because this is a guy that gives the least & gets the most.This man is a challenge to most women who think that they can change him. For women,if you're dating a guy of this nature,he will destroy you but the thrill of victory & the challange to win an conquer makes life worth living for. (catch me on my next blog on Mr.Assholes fears)

MySpace.com | Home Help | SignOut MySpace|People|Web|Music|Music Videos|Blogs|Videos|Events Groups|Film|Books|Classifieds|Comedy|Jobs Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds View Blog Post a Comment to a Blog Entry March 19, 2007 - Monday - 3:59 PM Complaining Women You know what is getting on my nerves is all the women I see thaty complain about how they can't get a good man and the want one but when one does come along they diss him or feel their too good for him. Then there are the women i feel sympathy for the fact is they fall prey to this blow out of portion cheat talk game some guys like to pray when they can't be real with the woman. I mean no woman deserves to be treated like dirt or a second rate human being. I have to admit there are those women out there you acual deserve being treated like dirt but it's still wrong. I'm a nice guy and I get the boot just because I sound the same just like other guys how say things and it's just wind coming out of their lungs. Not all guys want to hit it and quit it ok there are perfectly legit men out there who are in it to win it ok! I have been hurt by females who wound up being hood-rats or chicken heads etc. and I still mange to be a descent guy first of all Ladies common sense will tell you if a guy's first conversation is total all about sexx then there's something wrong I mean I love sex i wish I could do alot but i can't but it is not my sole reason for asking someone out either. I ask you for your number because I'm intrested in you not you booty, or breast they come with the package ok? You need to really weigh your options because not all cute guys are made to be husbands or long term boyfriends so please use common sense and weight the situation before you say yes, because I'm tired of the complaining. I'm a good man and there are many many more like me. Trust me we're tired of being alone or misused as well give a guy a chance you may just get lucky. The rich-text editor is currently disabled. We're working on a fancy new one. Posted Date: September 7, 2007 - Friday Body: Give Kudos: 2 Kudos 1 Kudos No Kudos About | FAQ | Terms | Privacy | Safety Tips | Contact MySpace | Advertise| MySpace International ©2003-2007 MySpace.com. All Rights Reserved.

MySpace.com | Home Help | SignOut MySpace|People|Web|Music|Music Videos|Blogs|Videos|Events Groups|Film|Books|Classifieds|Comedy|Jobs Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds View Blog Post a Comment to a Blog Entry August 6, 2007 - Monday - 8:50 AM FAKE MEN AND REAL MEN A REAL MAN WILL TELL YOU AND HIS FRIENDS IN FRONT OF YOU HE LOVES YOU AND HE'LL MEAN IT FAKE MEN WILL TELL YOU AND NOT HIS FRIENDS A REAL MAN WILL SACRIFICE WHAT HE REALLY WANTS TO DO OR BUY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY A FAKE MAN COULD CARELESS ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT IT'S ALL ABOUT HIM AND HIS WHORES. A REAL MAN WILL TRY EVERYTHING TO MAKE YOU HAPPY EVEN IF WANTED THE DIAMOND RING IN THE JEWELRY STORE AND IT MEANT HE HAD TO WORK THREE JOBS HE'D DO IT. A FAKE MAN WILL TELL YOU TO PICK SOMETHING A LITTLE LESS COSTLY. A REAL MAN WILL WIPE YOUR SNOT WHEN HAVE A COLD AND FEED YOU THE SOUP HE COOKED AND THEN RENT THE NEW MOVIE YOU MISSED IN THEATRES. A FAKE MAN WILL BARELY HAND YOU A TISSUE. A REAL MAN WILL RUN YOUR BATH WATER EVEN IF HE IS THE LAST ONE HOME AND YOU HAVEN'T COOKED , HE'D EVEN BRING HOME DINNER INSTEAD OF HAVING YOU COOK. A FAKE WILL MAKE YOU COOK AND THEN WONT RUN YOUR BATH WATER. A REAL MAN WILL MAKE WORK FOR AN OPTION NOT A MUST SITUATION. A FAKE MAN WILL MAKE YOU WORK AND HE WILL SIT ON HIS BUTT. A REAL MAN WILL TELL YOU EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU WITHOUT MENTIONING SEXUAL BODY PARTS. A FAKE MAN WILL TELL WHAT HE LIKES ABOUT THREE MAJOR BODY PARTS EVERY MAN THINKS DURING SEX. A REAL MAN WILL TELL YOU YOUR PRETY TO HIM AND HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO SHOULD MATTER. A FAKE MAN WILL LET YOU DRESS LIKE A SLUT SO EVERY MAN CAN CLASSIFY YOU FOR HOW YOU LOOK AND NOT WHO YOU ARE. A REAL MAN WANTS TO GET TO KNOW YOU WITH YOUR CLOTHES ON. A FAKE MAN WANTS TO GET TO KNOW YOU WITH YOU BEING NAKED. P.S. I'LL BE IMPROVING BOTH BLOGS MORE AND MORE SO BE ON THE LOOK OUT FOR ADD ONS. The rich-text editor is currently disabled. We're working on a fancy new one. Posted Date: September 7, 2007 - Friday Body: Give Kudos: 2 Kudos 1 Kudos No Kudos About | FAQ | Terms | Privacy | Safety Tips | Contact MySpace | Advertise| MySpace International ©2003-2007 MySpace.com. All Rights Reserved.

MySpace.com | Home Help | SignOut MySpace|People|Web|Music|Music Videos|Blogs|Videos|Events Groups|Film|Books|Classifieds|Comedy|Jobs Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds View Blog Post a Comment to a Blog Entry August 6, 2007 - Monday - 7:42 AM THE DIFFERNCE BETWEEN A WOMAN AND A WHORE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A WOMAN AND A WHORE IS : A WOMAN WILL TELL YOU THE TRUTH EVEN IF IT HURTS AND THEN SHE'LL SINCERLY APOLOGIZE FOR IT TOO. A WHORE WILL TURN ON THE WATER WORKS LIE TO YOU STRAIGHT FACED AND THEN GET ANGRY WHEN YOU CONFRONT HERE AND CATCH HER IN A LIE. A REAL WOMAN WILL ADMIT WHEN SHE IS WRONG AND TAKE THE BLAME LIKE A WOMAN SUPPOSE TO AND NOT TRY AND PUT IT ON YOU. A WHORE IS ALWAYS RIGHT AND EVERYONE ELSE IS WRONG A REAL WOMAN WON'T CHEAT ON YOU AND IF SHE DOES SHE'LL TELL AND GIVE THE REASONS WHY A WHORE WILL LIE TO YOU AND THEN ONLY TELL YOU LIMITED THINGS AND THEN SHE'LL PLAY WITH YOUR HEART. A REAL WOMAN WILL GET YOU AHEAD IN LIFE A WHORE WILL ONLY HOLD YOU BACK A REAL WOMAN WILL BE THERE WHEN EVERYTHING FALLS APART A WHORE WILL ONLY BE THERE WHEN YOUR ON YOUR FEET AND NOT ON YOUR BACK A REAL WOMAN WILL SHOW YOU OFF TO FRIENDS AND FAMILY AND WILL TELL THE WORLD SHE LOVES AND PRATICAILLY OWNS YOU. A WHORE WILL HIDE YOU LIKE DIRTY LAUNDRY AND KEEP TO THE SIDE UNTIL THE ONE SHE REALLY LOVED SCREWS HER OVER THEN SHE'LL COME CRYING TO YOU. A REAL WOMAN WILL WANT YOU TO SHARE EVERY CONER OF YOUR LIFE WITH HER AND SHE WITH YOU. A WHORE COULD CARE LESS ABOUT YOU. A REAL WOAMN WILL NOT ONLY TELL YOU SHE LOVES YOU BUT SHE'LL SHOW IT EVEN AT THE TOUGH TIMES WHEN SHE'S HAVING IT HARD. A WHORE WILL MAKE MATTERS WORSE AND TREAT YOU LIKE CRAP. A REAL WOMAN TELL YOU OFF AND CORRECT YOU A WHORE WILL BITCH AT YOU AND MAKE NO SENSE. A REAL WOMAN WILL SHOW YOU SHE'S REAL AND NOT TELL A WHORE WILL TELL AND NOT SHOW YOU. A REAL WOMAN WILL LET YOU IN ON HER PROBLEMS AND WILL HELP YOU THROUGH YOURS. A WHORE COULD CARELESS BUT YOURS SHE JUST WANTS TO KNOW WHAT YOU CAN DO TO HELP HER. IF YOU ARE A REAL WOMAN RESPOND TO THIS AND LET ME KNOW IF I LEFT ANYTHING OUT. The rich-text editor is currently disabled. We're working on a fancy new one. Posted Date: September 6, 2007 - Thursday Body: Give Kudos: 2 Kudos 1 Kudos No Kudos About | FAQ | Terms | Privacy | Safety Tips | Contact MySpace | Advertise| MySpace International ©2003-2007 MySpace.com. All Rights Reserved.

MySpace.com | Home Help | SignOut MySpace|People|Web|Music|Music Videos|Blogs|Videos|Events Groups|Film|Books|Classifieds|Comedy|Jobs Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds View Blog Post a Comment to a Blog Entry June 29, 2006 - Thursday - 11:30 AM ASUNDER And said,For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother,and shall cleave to his wife:and they twain to be one flesh. Wherefore they are no more twain,but one flesh.What therefore God hath joined together,let no man put ASUNDER.(Matthew 19:5,6) That is a verse that should be embedded in peoples'minds.I've seen marriages fall apart which ends in divorce,& that's the sad thing because people are marrying for the wrong reasons.I've made mistakes in the past where I was rushing to be in a relationship & I've always got hurt because I was trying to be nice to them & they took advantage of my kindness.What I've learned now is just pray & ask God to send you that special someone & don't go look for love,let love look for you.When you are blessed by God when he sends you that person,don't let anyone come between you & your mate because there are a lot of wolves that's trying to prey on your mate & if they're going to be week to stoop down that low;then they were'nt meant for you in the first place.Follow your heart & not your mind because it will let you know if that person is meant for you. The rich-text editor is currently disabled. We're working on a fancy new one. Posted Date: September 6, 2007 - Thursday Body: Give Kudos: 2 Kudos 1 Kudos No Kudos About | FAQ | Terms | Privacy | Safety Tips | Contact MySpace | Advertise| MySpace International ©2003-2007 MySpace.com. All Rights Reserved.

MySpace.com | Home Help | SignOut MySpace|People|Web|Music|Music Videos|Blogs|Videos|Events Groups|Film|Books|Classifieds|Comedy|Jobs Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds View Blog Post a Comment to a Blog Entry May 26, 2006 - Friday - 12:09 PM LET'S MAKE HISTORY OR WE'RE HISTORY For when they shall rise from the dead,they neither marry nor are given in marriage;but are as the angels which are in heaven.(Mark 12:25) I just want to bring this out to you because marriage is only a historical event which is a sacered comminuon before God & it should not be taken for granted.What is so bad is that a lot of people are marrying for the wrong reasons because of money,looks,& other material possessions.It is sad that the people who wants to get married cannot get married;& the ones who don't need to get married gets married.Sometimes I wonder,will we ever be with that person who will change our lives & alter our destiny??? ,because I want to make history before my dying day. The rich-text editor is currently disabled. We're working on a fancy new one. Posted Date: September 6, 2007 - Thursday Body: Give Kudos: 2 Kudos 1 Kudos No Kudos About | FAQ | Terms | Privacy | Safety Tips | Contact MySpace | Advertise| MySpace International ©2003-2007 MySpace.com. All Rights Reserved.

It's amazing that assholes can get girls.Actually,now that I think of it,it's not that amazing.They are assholes at heart,but to meet girls they lavish their undying love.IT'S A CHARADE.They act nice,friendly,& listen...until they get into what they're after.Their prey thinks they are in love with them,however when they realize what assholes their predators really are,they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside.The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy,but ASSHOLES WILL ALWAYS BE ASSHOLES.She gets upset & goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole.But she claims to love the asshole...Now this is where the theory begins.She doesn't want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away,instead she will stay with the asshole.Girls are idiots.They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along.He never had to pretend to be a good guy because he is naturally like that.However girls don't see it for some reason or another.They look at the nice guy as a friend,buddy,pal,& a trusted companion to whom they can tell their story about their asshole boyfriend.But the nice guy isn't that NAIVE.He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along.The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening.Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them,they think of the nice guy as a friend.A FRIEND.They don't say"Oh he's hot"or "I want to have his children"about the nice guy,they just want the emotional support that they can't get from their asshole boyfriend.The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action.I am starting to wonderif being a nice guy is really the route to get all of the action?I've been down this path for most of my post-pubescent life & it has gotten me NOWHERE...at least not in the women department.Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world,right?They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!!Girls aren't looking for nice guys...they say they are but they're not.Thy are looking for the perfect asshole ,but there is no such thing as the perfect ASSHOLE.To all the girls with boyfriends who don't treat them right & don't care anything about you;I say this look next to you.The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for.He is what you want your asshole boyfriend to be like.He knows more about you than you know about yourself ...because he has listened to it all.

I remember the time when I was in a relationship with my girlfriend,I was doing the right thing by being good to her & treating her right;then all of a sudden,I find out that she was cheating on me with my so-called best friend.Not only she cheated on me with him,but other guys as well also.I was like,how can she do this to me after everything I had done for her?If she think I didn't had opprotunities to cheat on her,I could've.There were women that was looking at me hard at my job & even her friends were checking me out.I could've cheated on her if I wanted to but I didn't because I wanted to do the right thing & if I did it,I wouldn't be any better than she is.I just leave people like her in the hands of God because she will reap for what she has sown