im a down to earth guy,i say things as i see them ,im a widow with 3 children 20,18 and 16,they are my life,am here to chat and meet new people,well as best you can over the internet,my life has had many ups and downs and i have witnessed some awful things during my time as a firefighter,but one thing that has stuck with me is human spirit,when things get really bad and shocking events unfold human spirit is what endures...now for me its time to enjoy the fubar spirit ...my real name is andy and have no problem disclosing that as thats who i am