You know, I am really fed up with something here, this whining now of somebody saying something behind that person's back routine, I got a newsflash for people, people are going to talk about others behind there back and it's in normal daily conversation and you know what, I used to whine about it, I'll honestly admit here that I did that when I was younger but now that I'm almost 40 yrs of age, I am not going to worry about it, because it's ridiculous to worry about it because if you worry about it, it'll only drive you insane, either deal with it or let it drive you insane, it's that simple because I for one, don't complain about it and if somebody has something to say about me, say it to me on here or Windows Live Messenger or AOL Instant Messenger or CherryTap or to my face otherwise, shut up and move on because it's ridiculous, I know the truth about me and nobody else does unless they were told by me otherwise people are assuming, PERIOD!