Happiness.... I wonder what it is sometimes? I find happiness when I'm around my friends and family. But I am never completely happy. Its like there's something missing? Or is it just loneliness...? I dunno. Does being with someone make you happy and keep you from being lonely? Well, yes and no? Are you with them for the right reasons or just because? I think there's alot of people who waste there time so that they aren't lonely. I know I have before. I'll be the first to admit, and I'm still lonely and not completely happy. First, you need to find yourself. Who you are.. and what you want to be. Love yourself... or you will never be able to love someone else. Don't settle for just Mr. Right or Ms Right now. Look for Mr. Right or Ms Right, but don't be afraid to get to know someone. Quit comparing everyone to your X. Your not with them for a reason. It didn't work out, move on! It only means there is someone else better out there for you, and if it so happens you do belong with your X, god will bring you back together. But don't sit around waiting for it to happen. If you love someone, tell them! If you miss someone, tell them... if you like someone, tell them! Don't wait for the opportunity to pass you by, you may regret it one day. Love is about taking chances. Making a fool of yourself, and doing things you may have never done before.
I'm 31, Single..I'm not completely happy. I don't see my family much, and I MISS THEM! I miss my old friends!! I spend as much time with my friends as I can but I'm still lonely. But I love meeting new people. And I do want to find someone who makes me really happy. I want to have fun, and take my time getting to know someone. Ive been used.. Ive been cheated on... dumped.. I'm still hanging in there. I really am a great guy. Ive just made bad decisions. I'm sure we all have.
Take your time to get to know someone, be honest... Talk to them. Take them out. Make them feel special. If you know your not right for each other, or you cant get over your X, or you found someone else.. be honest. Wouldn't you want them to do the same. The worst feeling in the world is to be unwanted or unloved as well as confused.
Take a chance... You may find the girl or boy of your dreams.... they maybe right under your nose.
Saving smiles for you... 
