Buggzy A best friend is like a four leaf's blog: "Life"

Moments ago I read a mum and decided to give my views on the subject. 

OMG! lol I opened up a can of worms I think lol.  She was upset that her relationship wasnt the same and she felt her man wasnt no longer interested.

Well all I said was sometimes in a relationship men become comfortable and feel they dont need to try as hard.  Okay I stand corrected.

I should have said Men and Woman become comfortable and feel they dont need to try any more.

Wowwwwwwwwwwwww a couple of dudes got all butt hurt and I guess I struck a nerve or something.  That wasnt my intent.

So I thought awwwww best just to leave it alone and let them  rant and get all pissy .  Not gonna feed into their dramma lamas

I think when you find someone of your desire,  we meaning men and woman will go out of our way to win them over.

Once we do and we have been with them for x amout of mths, years what have  you ,  we seem to stop trying to keep up our appearance and just let our selfs go. 

And we  stop trying to do the things we once did to attract them. 

Yes its part of life not saying it isnt.  But I just feel if we just kept up looking good as we can and do small things to show our mate we love them .  Just maybe more relationships wouldnt end on a sour note.

One of the dudes that got all pissy with me,  was whinning about once a woman has that ring she turns into a bitch.

Well sorry to say some men turn into a dam control freak.  So you see the same thing happens to the woman once the man puts on the ring .

It takes two to make and break a relationship

Any how ,  for those who got all pissy with me ,  sorry was just giving my opinion and personally I dont give a rats ass if you agreed or not.

I watched a show today and the more I watch it the more I like it.

The show was Boston Legal. 

Any how one lawyer said to the other she thought he was lost cause one way he does whats right and t hen does about face and screws up.

I thought about that for a bit and realized yanno, I am just like that . I try hard to do the right things by every one and try to help out were ever I can and yet some how manage to fuck things up for myself and thus feeling like a piece of shit.

I use to try and try to get people to like me and would sit and cry to my father and ask what am I doing wrong. He said nothing just sometimes trying to hard is hit and miss . Now I am in my 50's and still I cant seem to make a good friend. I dont know I guess how.

Yes I suppose I am feeling sorry for myself seems,  that is the one thing I am good at.  I try and put my best foot forward but again ..end up putting my foot in  my mouth.

I thought about just going back to the old me,  were I wouldnt speak much just kinda crawl back within myself .

This way ,  I figure I wont get any one pissed off at me,  or bad mouthing me.  Wait!! thats bs no matter if I say or dont say things people will always shoot off their mouths even thou they have no dam idea what I am about.

Any how I suppose its time for me to look deep with in myself and figure out what my next move should be. 

Have you ever noticed that when a mummer  makes a logical honest mumm.  They are called names and be littled?

I think its funny cause the ones that are doing the bashing are just inscure  narrow minded idiots.

Are they afraid of the truth,  and being centered out?

Is that why they try and amuze them selfs by bashing cause they are  as they say butt hurt?

Its like posting a mum bashing someone for whinning in a mum, then turning around and doing the same.  Because they are complaining about this persons mum and they in fact are whinning about it.

Or woman and some men (weird) pissin and moaning about people marking their pics nsfw when their not.  And turning around and doing the same. 

I could go on and on but you get the picture. These people need to check them selfs in the mental ward for evaluation .

Because why piss and moan about someone when your doing the same.  Is it because you see your self in them and you dont like what you see.

If thats the case peeps seek councelling and get help.

Every one has their opinion about thoughts and feeling.  And if you dis-agree with the mummer show some intelligents and tell them why.  And if you dont have a valid reason to comment other then to act like a dam idiot or a re re dont comment move on to the next.

And for any one reading this that doent like my views.

Ya know what

I personally dont give a rats butt

I read a mumm today from a gentleman who was reflecting on becomming and grandpa and how it made him feel.

Some of the comments givin were awesome.  Some not so much.  But every one is intiled to their opinion.

I know how he feels seriously.  When I got prego with my first child at the age of 24 the thought of a child calling me mom didnt seem to appealing.

But I think that was just the shock of becomming more mature and now the responsiblity for carring for another person.

Then after having two more sons,  I thought about being called grandma.  (shivers)  that still will take some getting use to.  I know I dont want to be called grandma but warmmed up to the idea of being called nana.  That word dont seem to make me feel to old lol

My hubby how ever wants to be called old man or old fart hahahahhaha  .  Hes such a dum ass !!!

So for any one that might or is gonna become a grandparent. Just think one thing smirk

As the child grows up you can spoil them to death and they have to go home with your son or daughter and is a good way of getting even.  Fill them up with candy and really really noisey toys .

And when your son or daughter complains,  just giggle and say......awwwwwwwwwww revenge is sweet isnt it.!  Now you know how we felt when your grandparents did it to us .

I am a person who suffers from depression most of the time.  For those of you who dont you have no dam idea what we go through on a daily basis.

Any how,  during the course of my sleep,  I had a dream of my father who past away in 84.  For the better part it feels like he died yesterday.

Seems when I am at my lowest he comes to me in a dream.  The dream never makes sense so I try and break it down to symbols cause I feel hes trying to tell me something.

Any how prior to this dream,  I was crying one day cause im tired of just living hand to mouth, paycheck to paycheck.  And I ask out loud ,  dad plz give me a hug and tell me things are gonna be okay.

Well as I said during the night, I dreamed about my dad.  And part of the dream he put his arms around me and hugged me .

And like always I woke up crying,  and here I am awake and sad and blogging this .

Any of you that still have your parents around,  hug them you never know when they wont be there any more.