CaliGuy69's blog: "Let It Go"

The hardest job in the world is that of a single parent we over look all the things they have to do that are taken for granted. The single parent is the provider, healer, mom, dad, tutor, teacher, educator, director, advice giver, best friend, and lover. To those he/she has in their life and all the worries that come along with it like a home with both parents. Yeah things are a little different but for the better of their child/children. There are those who like to fault the single parent without knowing the real responsibility of what all they are faced with daily and what they have to deal with on the regular. I know first hand what it is like for the single parent because I come the home of one. The greatest person in my life was a single mom that took care of me and made sure that I did the right thing while working. No I wasn't always watched but that only made me a better person and gave me quicker wits and understanding of what all life may have in store for me. When you see things first hand and they are not hidden from you by your mom and dad because they don't want you to know they are having trouble paying bills like its a bad thing. We are all only human not robots that go about our day. I'm glad for what I had and who I am today because of that special woman who took me through life and shared things with me. Because of her today I can see a single parent and know their struggles and concerns without them having to express them verabally to know what they are. Single moms/dads continue what you do and never give up hope keep pushing and fighting for the things your little ones need. And you will see the fruit of your labors raise and grow into wonderful people that will always love what you did for them. Stand and be recognized for who you are the hardest working people on the planet who deserve more respect then you are usually given. So, rise and conquer send forth your children to be the future leaders of America and make it a better place.

I promise you my love I promise you my heart I promise you my life I promise we'll never be apart I promise not to hurt you I promise to never make you cry I promise to always trust you I promise not to lie I promise you forever I promise you tonight I promise you my respect I promise to do things right I promise to always be there I promise until the end I promise to always love you I promise to be your best friend I promise you my love I promise you my life I promise this forever I promise our friendship is my life

LET IT GO BY T.D. JAKES Let it go for 2006..by T. D. Jakes There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The bible said that, "They came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us." [1 John 2:19] People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!! If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to ..LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ... LET IT GO!!! If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth... LET IT GO!!! If someone has angered you ... LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge .. LET IT GO!!! If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction ... LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents .. LET IT GO!!! If you have a bad attitude... LET IT GO!!! If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better... LET IT GO!!! If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him... LET IT GO!!! If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.... LET IT GO!!! If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves.. LET IT GO!!! If you're feeling depressed and stressed .... LET IT GO!!! If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to.. LET IT GO!!! Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2006!!! LET IT GO!!! Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then LET IT GO!!!