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57 Year Old · Female · From Mobridge, SD · fuMarried to: RAD · Invited by: 2523365 · Joined on March 3, 2009 · Relationship status: Married · Born on August 10th · 23 referrals joined! · 3 different people have a crush on me!

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Hi I'm Melissa, I'm not online much as I work some long hours, I now own my own flower/coffee shop, usually at work 12 to 14 hours a day. I enjoy being with my kids, family & friends when I have time that I can get away and see them. I also enjoy being on the Harley with my husband Robert. I like camping, spending time with family & friends, roller skating, car shows, casinos, dancing,reading, watching movies & Texas Hold-em. If you have any questions please feel free to ask. I am taken and no I will not go on cam with you, Do not ask!!! if I don't answer it's because i leave my computer online all the time and i may be afk so don't think i am ignoring you. ***************************************************************************************************

The beautiful young woman in the photo was my niece, A petition to change the laws for careless driving that results in death that received 500 signatures from across the nation in 24 hours is the labor of one family fighting in the name of their lost loved one. The family of Jessica S., a driver from Chariton County who, along with her unborn child, was killed in a car accident March 26. The family said it is is seeking justice to see that another family doesn't have to suffer the same loss.
The MHP reported the collision occurred after another driver, 40-year-old BJV, crossed the center line and struck another vehicle driven by 18-year-old (Name removed). He was driving north on Highway 5 in Chariton County. The highway patrol said he lost control of his vehicle and collided into Jessica. Jessica called 9-1-1 twice complaining about BJV's driving. The first call took place five minutes before the accident. Jessica's second call came 18 seconds before the crash, ending as she was killed on impact. When the officer at the scene asked BJV why someone would call in a complaint, BJV said she ran off the road a couple times.Missouri Highway Patrol's accident reconstruction reports determined that the actions of BJV failing to maintain her side of the roadway led to the fatality collision and are the sole cause of the accident. BJV worked a 12-hour night shift before the accident. "BJV had just got off work and she was heading home and she has no recollection of the ride from work to the accident. The only thing she remembers from the accident is looking up and hitting the truck," attorney Smith said."Best we can tell is she was really tired, falling asleep and so she crossed the center line," Chariton County Prosecutor Scheiderer said. "He said in court. We assume she fell asleep. There's been nothing confirmed of what she was actually really doing," mother-in-law Penny said. Jessica was six 1/2 months pregnant with a boy at the time of the accident. She also had a 3-year-old girl, Lily."Her priority was to be a mommy to Lily and she was really looking forward to the baby being born, giving me my first grandson," mother Cheryl said. Scheiderer said he filed charges the day of the accident for careless and imprudent driving and failure to maintain the right half of the road, but did not believe there was enough evidence to pursue the more serious involuntary manslaughter charge.
According to the Missouri statute for involuntary manslaughter, a person commits this crime in the first degree if he or she: 1. Recklessly causes the death of another person 2. Operates a motor vehicle while in an intoxicated condition acting with criminal negligence to cause the death of two or more people.Scheiderer charged BJV with a misdemeanor for careless and imprudent driving. BJV's attorney Carmen Smith said during court Jessica's family made a statement and later the judge imposed the 48 hours in jail and the maximum $1,000 fine.
"There was no alcohol and no controlled substance in her blood system which if that occurs and it's enough that it's actually impairing someone's ability to drive it can result in an involuntary manslaughter case," Scheiderer said.However, BJV did have a prescription drug known as Carisoprodol in her system. The drug warns it causes drowsiness and users should not operate a motor vehicle while taking it. Smith said BJV never had a problem with her medication before."She has fibromyalgia and she also has a lung condition where she had to be on medication. She suffers from chronic pain, which a number of people in society do. So the medication that she's on she's been prescribed it for a number of years. She's taking it exactly as it's been prescribed to her," Smith said. Scheiderer said the blood tests only show whether the prescription drug was present or not. The test do not show a quantitative measure of how much is in her system on that particular day like sobriety tests dealing with alcohol.
Jessica's family said there should be harsher penalties for distracted drivers who cause accidents that result in death. "She should have got more than a $1,000 fine and 48 hours in jail. I mean because of her actions that morning she's destroyed our lives. I mean she's completely changed everything. How do you tell a 3 year old that she's never going to have her mommy again?" her mother Cheryl said. This cry for justice comes after more than one accident fatality in Jessica's family. On June 3, 2010, a MoDOT driver killed Cheryl's 17-year-old stepson Matthew . That driver did not face charges. Missouri Highway Patrol reports said the MoDOT dump truck pulled out in front of the vehicle, failing to yield as it approached Highway 63. The truck Matthew was a passenger in was traveling north on Highway 63 when the dump truck hit the passenger side.
"The law needs to change. It may not help us now, but eventually it's going to help somebody get the closure and the peace and the justice that they deserve," Cheryl said.
"The laws need to change where careless driving is concerned and it's not right. I mean she got 48 hours in jail, no probation, nothing. She's still driving today. She did not lose her license," Cheryl said. In Missouri if you hit a construction worker you get a 10,000 fine and lose your license and get a year in jail... this woman killed my daughter and her unborn son.
"So if anything can be learned from this--if you're tired, pull over. If you are behind an erratic driver, don't follow them. Pull over. If you feel like there's a car that the highway patrol needs to check in on, pull over and make that phone call. Be cautious. Be aware of your environments," Smith said. Cheryl sent a letter with her story to Missouri state officials, including Governor Jay Nixon, to review the laws for careless driving. If a new law passes, the family hopes to name it Lily's Law after Jessica 3-year-old daughter, left to grow up without her mother. Please sign this petition and in the note say signed for Melissa. Thank you

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