If i look into your profile ( people in the service ) and i click on fan ... it is nothing but a respect thing .... My son is in the service too ... I don't want or intend to affend anyone ! As far as other matters are concerned , if i talk with you , it really doesn't mean that " oh god , i want you " .. unless i tell you other wise . If you're homeless , out of work , looking for a 1 night stand , i'm the wrong person to seek out ! I have enough problems of my own without adding onto them . I'm not looking to see someone's personal parts ( i do know what one looks like ) i don't need a reminder . I love men ( no offense ladies ) ... i'm just here to find online friends and it would really be GREAT if i found the man of my dreams ... but .. is he really out there ? I don't know but i'll update you and let you know if i find him , ok ...