MsTrinityD of TrinityEntertainmentSvcs's blog: "FUBAR Stuff"

She wants your virtual d*ck back in your pants!!

LMAO

Honestly in the last month, I have had two "girlfriends" go through their boyfriends' phones, find my number and call me to ask me "How I knew" their boyfriend. My response always is "Hes a virtual friend on a website I sit and rot on most everyday".

My question would be... what sort of threat does any chic on the internet pose with your boyfriend (if given close proximity- then she poses a huge threat if shes willing to put out but since we are talking about me.... Im not in close proximity and I dont put out)? Is he not allowed to have friends? Or not allowed to have friends that you dont know about, and approve?

I find this both funny and sad at the same time. I never liked that feeling that I would get in my stomach when I got the suspicion that everything wasnt on the up and up like it should be. When I finally figured everything out, and busted the guy for being a cheating lying .... whatever; I felt so burnt. Like a total and complete fool. Trusting someone who isnt worth trusting really does suck. I am just not sure that going through his phone and calling all the girls in it is the way to the truth. Specially when Im 2500 miles away from your guy...

 

Well as I sit here and ponder the weekends events, one particularly short but relatively eye opening scenario played out for me Friday night. On my way to Las Vegas for the umpteen-millionth time; actually as I was literally 30 miles outside of town, I got a call on my iphone (yes the one that is now MIA) from someone I have not talked to in a while because he has been hella busy working (so Im told). Well I answer the call "This is Tonya" and a very unfamiliar voice asks "You arent Tonya {some other last name than mine}" and I answered, No, Im Tonya Murray.

She says, "Oh ok. Well... How do you know {insert poor fella whose girlfriend decided to randomly dial in his phone's name here} so and so?"

I paused for a moment, mostly from shock I think and then answered her honestly that I knew him from a website. She then begins to drill me on how long I have known this person, how long have I been talking to him online, on the phone, etc. I really didnt know exact answers and she seemed really frustrated with me because of that. I mean come on, this person and I were not that close any longer so I tended to let go of what little history we did have.

Finally after trying really hard to remember specifically how long we had been chatting I finally told her, "Look, I dont know how long we have been talking for but its been a while." She then responds "Well I live with him and this is very upsetting to me". I replied "I understand, I'd be frustrated as well if I was unaware of what my partner was doing behind my back". She went quiet momentarily, then thanked me and hung up.

Sigh... other people's drama. I do try to avoid it wherever I can. I am still a bit shocked because I had NO IDEA this guy had someone in his life. But then again what do you expect? Its the internet. It seems here, we package ourselves in the best wrapping to present ourselves in the best light. I just dont understand that sort of thinking and I dont understand what is "fun" in playing games with the people you live with and share your life with (this guy's girlfriend who is apparently unaware of everything he is up to and apparently he is up to alot.

I just say, Keep it real. Anything else seems to me like a waste of energy.

*kttn*

 

PS if you are in Vegas and you find my Iphone - Ill give you a reward ;)

"The worst thing about being lied to is knowing you weren't worth the truth!!" I plan on writing another blog to better explain this little blurb I felt like posting this AM (knowing though that most people here on Fubar know exactly what I'm talking about because i have seen this little saying all over this site in peoples profiles, blogs, MuMMs etc) til then, just food for thought; and I'm starving.

In general, Effin amaze me with their holier than thou attitudes, assinine remarks, generalistic stereotyping of women they dont even talk to based on the pictures I post in my profile. This morning.... One accuses ME of stereotyping him as just another guy who never talks to me just looks at my pics (somehow it seems that the stereotyping was just evident)... and another has 5 billion friends, me being one of them supposedly who he wants adding his new profile (why not just keep your old profile up you dork). Well he's too lazy to go to his profile and send me a request.... but goes off on me about how I'm "just like every other woman here on fubar" that wants the guys to do all the work (and then he blocks me? I mean come on.... dont you really only block ppl here if you dont want ppl telling you the truth about how they dont think you are a 10?). It just amazes me where these people get off.... the assumptions that are made, the rude attitude they have towards their "friends" LOL .... friends.... are you effin kidding me you point whores.

I must begin with saying, I love Fubar. I feel like it has opened a door for me to become so much closer to someone I love so very dearly and thought I had lost years ago. I can't imagine that we would be as close as we are now, in the place that we are relationshipwise without this and other "chat venues" that we have utilized over the past few months. Our love has grown and our situation has evolved into a beautiful experience that I am loving every minute of. But as awesome a tool as Fubar has been to bringing someone back into my life that I thought I would never see again, it has also brought with it "evil" (as I cant think of any other way to describe it). I am convinced that the "internet" in general (myspace, yahoo, facebook, fubar, classmates, {enter other social networking site here}, etc.) brings out the worst in people. I have seen people come here and show their "true colors" when it comes to being manipulative, coniving, disrespectful, hateful and ultimately hurtful to people that they don't even know. I am a studier of Psychology and I have yet to figure out why people do the things they do online. Some of it is truly an extension of how they behave offline but sometimes its merely in this venue that they behave in such a way. Recently, I have had the unfortunate experience of dealing with what I would term is a vindictive and manipulative woman. I am guessing she thinks that my partner, is not onto her "agenda" but the both of us are not amused with the game she is playing. The saddest thing is, my partner and I believe in honesty above all else. We are honest with one another and straight forward and honest with other people- friends and acquaintances alike. It is sad for us both when we find we trust people who just can not be trusted. The thin veil of the internet seems to allow people to try to be something that they "create" for themselves to be, in thinking that no one will ever be any wiser to their true intentions. We are both perplexed at why someone would intentionally try to hurt either one of us, specifically when my partner considered this person a confidant; someone who understood some of the things he is going through. Shame on her for being so dishonest with her intentions. Games and lies and Agendas will only get you so far (be it here or in real life). And honestly, very rarely does anyone ever get what they want and actually manage to keep it by being deceitful and manipulative. One person who could absolutely vouch for this; has yet to have learned her lesson and it seems she is joined by another of her species that seems to think that she is going to get what she wants by playing this same game. For me, it seems like such a waste of time to plan and scheme and manipulate in this way when you could just be upfront with what it is you want. You might actually stand a better chance of getting it. Not in this case... but with someone else. Good Luck in your search hun; hopefully my sentiments about your behavior can guide you to enlightenment.

Honestly- I don't know why it is you have me blocked and you are now messaging me after the fact... But I can not respond to you. So I guess if you thought I was a b*tch before and that's why you blocked me, then I'm sure you think I'm a bigger b*tch now as I am not responding to your shouts. How is it that you can have me blocked but you can still message me? Odd.... So... Phillip in Valley View, TX and Da_Sox in Chicago, IL You have me blocked and I can not respond to your messages. *kttn*

Until.... 1) You wont talk dirty to me in Shoutbox 2) You wont comment on my NSFW pics 3) You have independent thought that I dont agree with 4) You dont agree with me 5) You wont add me to your family 6) You wont let me see those NSFW pics that No one else gets to see either 7) Chat on cam with me so I can yank my wanker for ya 8) I decide to block you just 'cause .... 9) Deem you to be a Drama queen although Im the one with the split personality/schizophrenic disorder LOL It just amazes me how "Amazingly Gorgeous/Beautiful" I am until something from this list happens... then Im not anymore. Im a nutcase/conceited tease/pathetic attention whore/ and so forth. Sticks and stones may break my bones bitches, but Im for real and Im honest about MY chemical imbalances and psychosis LMAO!!! *kttn*

I think its kind of shocking to be sitting here watching the folks scroll by and then suddenly a total hotty like BadVooDoo something or other passes by and then I click to read his profile and rate him an 11... and he has blocked me. Hmmm I dont remember talking to him all that much if at all honestly so I guess it makes me ponder the many irrational and immature reasons people block other people here: 1) fear of low rating 2) being pissed off cause you wont show them your nsfw pics 3) being pissed off you wont put them in your family even though you dont know who the f*ck they are 4) Last Word Syndrome- block you first after they have said something really truly nasty and horrid so you cant respond back to them. Oh well.... the shock wears off and ya move on, but its definitely something that intrigues me. The inner workings of some of the internet's most psychotic and chemically imbalanced minds. *kttn*

Wants to kill me: DTHitya: u didn't block your death sentence grly LOL DTHitya: I'm way to much Exciting, Attractive an Electrifying -- for that LOL ->DTHitya: but thanks for messaging me now I can block you I just love the anonymity of the internet. Stupid people come here and act like they are something tey arent.... When is Fubar ever going to do more than allow blocking for these psycho freaks? *kttn*