artsy smartsy's blog: "friends"

Life has its ups and downs...............God gave man a soul, along with the ability to make decisions about life. Many times we base our decisions on emotions rather than thought. Whether it be about love, politics, our finances, etc. We end up getting hurt. How illogical.When we let this happen we become what I call the sheepol. We must use our logic, and think things through. We must stay away from those who have become crazy, we cannot be rescuers. Without hurting ourselves in the process. I ask the protector to keep all my friends safe, and to give them logic in their thoughts.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. when someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.