my ex Randy Andrew Ling and all the shit he put me through
hey guys this is for all the women that have been hurt by Randy Andrew Ling a man that should never be trusted.... any woman that goes out with him be careful he will hurt you mentaly and physically..........
some of you know my my ex Randy and how bad he was treating me... All of you told me I should get rid of him....All the abuse of him pushing me around and making me feel worthless... I'm so happy its over no woman deserves that especially with his past criminal record of battery assault robbery and credit card fraud...... I should of been smarter then to go out with a man that has 4 counts of battery charges on his criminal record but like the song says hey it makes me a whole lot smarter and a fighter I have a restraining order on him so he will not come near me I am afraid of him who knows he just might kill me one day. he has to stay away from me and my apartment and my command knows about this so if he does try anything he will not only have to deal with me but the military as well. he wants to blame me for everything that has gone wrong, now trying to play the victim but then again these types of guys do that... I was at fault for something's, but I can not get over the hurt he caused me when he cheated on me well went out with another girl at the same time got her pregnant and left her not that's not a man that's a little child... I am so glad I did not marry him like he wanted and I kept putting it off.. if I did marry him I would have to go through a whole lot more bull shit then I'm going through now..... anyone can spend a year making up for it but you can not fix something like that no one can forgive that... when I went under way for 3 weeks he decides to sleep with another woman come on now if he really wanted to make it up gain my trust and respect he would not have done that. every time he said he loved and missed me I just could not believe him... sure he has tried to make it up to me but he also lied to me and to my face many many times randy said he was sorry but he should of thought about that before he did what he did I do not believe he was trying to make it up... and yes I did hit him but again he told me to many many times and I kept saying no to him so one day I snapped a woman can take just can so much abuse so I finally stood up to him and it did make me feel bad no one deserves to be hit I mean every body told me "good job he had it coming to him" but then again that's not me I'm a lover not a fighter. his ex mel finally did see it and believes me it did hurt that no one believed me but with guys like him playing the good person and putting on a fake front of course anyone would believe him there are many guys out there like Randy Andrew Ling. who make people believe there lies and bullshit because they only want to make themselves look good
I'm happy he met another woman but I bet once she has seen him and what he is really like and gone through the bullshit that Kara Michelle and I have gone through she will leave him to see one of his ex's did warn me and had the balls to tell me the truth but I did not listen I was the biggest bitch to her trying to defend him but as I found out the hard way like all the rest have and will ....Kara I should have believed you and got out before it came to this you have a child by him that he does not care about.. you tried to warn me and tell me but I did not listen like a fool....I'm so sorry kara..word can never express how sorry I truly am and yeah because I am in the military he only wanted the benefits and extra money... so girl if need I have you know what I mean by that I have some stuff we will talk about that. well see I use music to express how I feel in side well allot of us Scorpio's do that so her is how I feel about him with another or any woman:
by Monica: why her?
Now ladies y'all know
I speak from experience right?
I used to just look at him
and wonder why, why her?
You know what I'm saying?
But ladies I learned not to worry about them
living the happily ever after.
Cuz see that shit was built on a lie,
so it's sure to fall.
That's why I stand tall
and this song fighter::
Never, saw it coming
All of, your backstabbing
Just so, you could cash in
On a good thing before I realized your game
I heard, you're going around
Playing, the victim now
But don't, even begin
Feeling I'm the one to blame
'Cause you dug your own grave, uh huh
After all of the fights and the lies
Yes you wanted to harm me but that won't work anymore
Uh, no more, oh no, it's over
'Cause if it wasn't for all of your torture
I wouldn't know how to be this way now, and never back down
So I wanna say thank you
