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TrollSick of the constant BS. Honesty and loyalty have to be ...
Ex's / Past Flings
created @ 10/3/2007 10:26 am
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Sorry this is so long....

I dont know why but it seems like everytime i find myself single again, i go back to talking to people who once hurt me before. Nothing physical or fighting or anything... just kind of left.

The first guy we had a LDR (about 2 1/2 hours away), talking on the phone for 5 months... and we meet and he tells me hes not over his ex and kinda cuts all ties with me. A couple months later we started talking again but I told him i didnt want to do a LDR anymore, but in reality i was planning on moving 1200 miles away for someone else. When that didnt work, he now wants to see me again, but i'm not so sure but afraid to tell him.

The second guy another LDR (about 3 hours away), we met once and everything was amazing, had the best time i've ever had with someone and he gets home and i never heard from him again. We just started talking again recently and he told me he got scared because everything was a little TOO good and we kind of moved too fast... and he doesnt know how to control his feelings in that kind of situation. We want to see eachother again but deep down i have a feeling the same thing is going to happen again.

I really do like both guys. Guy number one i think would be more hurt if i told him i didnt want to see him... but i'm afraid of the emotional feelings with guy number 2. I've also been trying to see other people but i've come to realize local guys on long island are just exremely shallow and only want skinny blonde bimbo types (sorry to all the skinny blonds reading this... you are not all bimbos lol)... but seriously, i've been on a number of dates that just go nowhere. Anyway, i plan on seeing guy number 2 soon, but i'm still afraid of hurting number 1. Advice?
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