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| | ex, our kids, and my heart. |
| created @ 08/30/2008 07:15 pm |
| mum expired. [FRIENDS] |
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| so, my xwife(still married but...)becomes "homeless" after being evicted from two different homes and mooching off her sister(where my kids each HAD THEIR OWN COUCH to sleep on) so long the sister even kicked her out, brought me the kids and started floatin from sofa to sofa. then goes to a family reunion in Oklahoma for the weekend. elects to just not come back, leaving me 4 days in which to get them enrolled in school before the first day. blaming me the whole time(i'll admit my part but it took 2), now calls me crying about how she "is dying inside" because she misses her children but can't afford to drive up to see them expecting me to jump up and bring them to see her violating the court order stating that all visitation is to be within 100 miles of the town we live in and exposing myself to the DEFINITE possibility she will disappear with them. sadly i still love her as much as ever, though it has become meaningless, and absolutely hate that she is hurting. she promises them she'll call on certain days then doesn't, in fact they seemed to know momma wouldn't be coming back since they asked her if she was and she promised them. i don't want to take their momma from them( or in her perspective take her kids from her)they've had it rough already losing their cuz(we were adopting) when she became homeless the first time. what to do? should i: A just cut her out? or B try to help and expose them to further heartache? |
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