Here's Who I'm looking for: Please be sure to let me know how

to contact you. Understand I am focused upon a woman who wishes

commitment and a very long term relationship.




If you feel that you are 'too old', or that age matters:

-Close your eyes and hear the expressions of passion

-Close your eyes and feel the expressions of passion

-Close your eyes and smell the essence of passion

-Close your eyes an taste the essence of passion

-now...Open your eyes-because the expressions and essences of

passion you've just experienced are what we live life for each

day. No measurement of time will ever seperate the love of 2 who

wish to express and experience each other.




The woman in my life must want to be loved. The woman in my life

must feel that the family is most important beyond anything that's

within our lives. The woman in my life my will want to express her

emotions and to feel the expressions I offer. The woman in my life

must believe in spontaneity, for our love is measured in moments-we

will take advantage of every moment we can.




I have many admirable qualities that women desire-had I not made

mistakes in the past and been willing to learn from those to make

myself a better man, I would not be a man today. We must have a

common focus in almost every facet of our lives. What is important

to her becomes just as important to me. We are a team, and the team

does not function without each other. Each of us becomes a part of

the other-when I go shopping, the first thought I have is 'what

would she think about this item'. When I see her sad, I must do

what I can to make her smile and happy-I also must know when to

give her the space she needs.




My idea of a great first date: Sometimes the spontaneous impulses

when two people meet can be the most spectacular first date of all.

That first date is so full of anticipation, not knowing what the

other will say or do-and what is said and done is so profound and

resounding. The anticipation is compounded because we are trying to

be so conscience of what we say or do-because we want so desperately

to make an excellent impression, to be liked, admired and wanted. The

scenery for a first date can be almost anywhere, for the only true

focus on our minds-the center of our attention is the other person.

What makes a first date even more memorable for years to come is

the unexpected-although flowers are nice for a first date, having

them delivered by carriage makes them special.




What I find sexy in a partner: Sex is so much more than the physical.

Sexy is non-verbal, Sexy is the coordination of the hands, the eyes,

the body. To sit in a room with another, without a word being spoken,

yet when our eyes meet for that brief second-volumes are spoken as she

melts my heart with her eyes, as she lifts me to the clouds with her

finger grazing her lips.......




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What I've learned from past relationships: I speak to both men and women.......

you must know EXACTLY the type of person that you want before

seeking love or facilitating love interests from another-whether

it's on a website or out in your daily interations with people. It

is not fair to anyone you encounter, nor are you treating yourself

with any respect or dignity, if your only purpose is to solve your

own selfish curiosity.




The goal of every man and woman here should be:

to find love, to give love, to receive love-for the one, until our dying day together.

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Mail if you'd like me to post more insight of how romance and love

should be-maybe you can use it to smack the heads of the men out there,

for him to realize that he must respect the woman who chooses him to

love in return. It is when men lose that respect, and assume she will

always love him, that she turns to him and states "See Ya-now get the

fuck out of my house!" Any man can make a woman happy-for the moment,

but a true man is the one that can keep a woman happy

....and we know a happy woman means happiness for everybody!




Oh, if only you could understand why I haven't contacted you sooner...

if only I could understand why I haven't contacted you sooner. I want

to share my past with you. I have not written to you, yet I keep your

letter and read it to make me feel loved. When I see you, I am attracted

to you. When I read about you, I am attracted to you. When I think about

you, I am attracted to you. It is so hard to want to love you when the

distance keeps us apart.




I know you're looking for a serious relationship-I'm looking for a

serious relationship. Not Casual, not For The Time Being, not because

there's nothing else happening in our lives-the serious relationship

we seek is from this day forward. Commitment without conditions or

hidden agendas and with passion, true love, desire, honesty. This is

what we both seek-you think that means we could be seeking each other?




I wish to find my Life Partner-that woman who would protect the bond we

share and experience every day...at any cost. The most important words we

focus on and share with others are Together, Us, We, Family, Love,

Commitment, Inseparable-these are just some of the expressions that define

how all negative elements will be cast aside and all positive elements

shall be the fuel of our endeavors for the remainder of this lifetime and

the folklore of other lifetimes to come.




Considering the dark and gloomy path each of us has taken to finally

find each other, there will be nothing that will penetrate the emotions

we finally are able to express to each other, with each other,

for each other.




You are a woman that shares the same common interests as I do for

love, family and the desire for a relationship with one that will

be your life's partner-until death do us part. If I were down the

street or in the next State or another Country I would be on the

road to your door with the desire to greet you and say 'Love me as

I have always loved you'. We both are attracted to each other because

we wish to love, we wish to care for and nurture each other and to

share our love by spreading our happiness to others and to view our

love through the eyes of our children. There is so much I wish to

express to you-to express with you.




My passion for life is as strong as the desire to please and love

the woman that loves me-because she loves me, because she chooses

me-my life has meaning and the events and emotions experienced during

my life are no longer mine...they become ours.




In another lifetime of mine, I worked Radio in Sacramento, California(KROY, KSFM, KYLO)

and there were many a night I was in the studio recording

carts(before CDs) for airplay. Occasionaly I would sneak in an

extended version of a song or two-no one would catch it until it

actually aired. I found, while in the studio one night, the

greatest segue(one song mixing into another) I ever heard. Both

songs are from Foreigner-Waiting For A Girl Like You and I Want To

Know What Love Is. This set begins with a man who discovers the

feelings of love within him for a woman he has waited his entire

life for. He does not know if she feels the same way and he is so

afraid of intimidating her with his emotions and exclamations that

she might turn and run. As we move into the next song, he is finally

convinced he must express his love to her because it is the love from

her that has changed his life forever. Whenever I play these two

back-to-back......I lose it-from the expressions of pain, of fear

and finally of joy from the revelation, discovery and finally the

proclamation of love. Ultimately my favorite song is by

Eric Clapton, Wonderful Tonight, and will always forever be 'our' song.

This song is an anthem for two people who love each other without measure.