My grandparents died from various forms of cancer, my aunt died of breast cancer and now my ex father-in-law is battling cancer - I like him it's my ex I can't stand. I despise cancer and I so hope for the day when there is a treatment or cure. I'm sitting here thinking about what he just told me - that he goes back in April to see how much it has spread. My heart aches and I am teary eyed but for my daughter's sake I will be strong for her when she learns of her grandfather's recent doctor visit. I'll be around just don't expect me to be a happy person for a few hours or days.