I'm no longer welcome. When I tried to add a friend tonight I was told by the CherryTap that I had to have a primary picture set. Whoever created the message implied that because I had chosen to remain anonymous I was somehow not a fit for the site.
I won't be adding a primary picture anytime soon s I guess it is only a matter of time before I am expunged. Hope I have not made anyone feel like trash. That's how I feel at the moment.
Off to look for another site that respects my wishes.