Time for an update! Which I did below but wanted the important stuff up here. I got laid off in April after almost 10 years with the same company, but have decided to go back to school for medical billing and encoding. Hoping to start in August just need to get down there and straighten some more stuff out.

Please take the time to read this before messaging me. I didn't put it here for my own health. I'm tired of answering the same stupid questions over and over and over again.

I am very happily officially fuEngaged to my Boob man and looking forward to being offically fuMarried. We were fuMarried before they changed things so yeah.

No, I don't want to play or talk sexual with you and no, I don't have a webcam....thank my dog for that one. LOL

Before you even try it, read below....

I'm not here looking for love, I have someone special. I LOVE new friends though!

I'm happily taken by the most amazing man in this world. It took me a long time and a lot of pain to find him, and I'm not letting him go.

I'm actually very shy in person until I warm up to you a bit.

I'm a mother to one beautiful daughter, a girlfriend to the most amazing man ever, a daughter, a little sister, an aunt to 4 beautiful children, a niece to my remaining aunt and uncle, a cousin and a good friend to the few that I let all the way in.

I can be a smart ass, a bitch, stubborn, difficult, and a sweetheart. I tend to hold my feelings in until I blow up. Yes, I know this isn’t the best thing to do but it’s hard to change something you’ve been doing your entire life.

I have a very hard time trusting people. I have a big heart and always want to do more than I am capable of. I hate liars, cheaters, disrespectful and judgmental people with a passion.

We’re all here trying to get through this crazy race they call life. Don’t make it any more difficult than it has to be. You won’t be judged on how much money you made, how skinny you were, how smart you were or how big your house was or what kind of car you drove when you get to the pearly gates so don’t let that run your life now.

Get to know me before you pass judgment on me. . I’ve been through more than most could imagine and I think I turned out alright.

I'm honest, sometimes to the point that it hurts, indecisive, forgetful, insane, impatient, weird, a little crazy, emotional, disorganized, kind hearted, sometimes quick witted, over worked, underpaid, and under appreciated.

I love my family, my 3, yes 3 dogs (Cosmo, Sandy and Peanut), my daughter’s iguana Izzy, our salt water fish, MY 1999 Chrysler Cirrus I bought on May 02, 2009, any man in uniform (*melts*), sushi (yumm), chocolate, my TRUE friends, sleep, coffee, sweet tea, the old Aflak commercials that you never see on t.v. anymore, and the Geico commercial with the guy at the diner, the outdoors, babies, music, the beach, being a girl, everything about him and the fact that we are all different.



I will ALWAYS have a soft spot for Wrangler butts and jacked up trucks. (If you have to ask, please don’t. It’s not something easily explained.)

My favorite colors are purple, green and blue. I love the fact that I found the greatest man in the world and he’s willing to tolerate me on my really bad days. I have always and will always support our military. They make the ultimate sacrifice and so few seem to realize or acknowledge that. Stop and think about it….. if it wasn’t for those brave men and women who are willing to fight our wars, we wouldn’t have the freedom we do today. Make sure to thank them when you see them.

I only hate one person in this world and that is something I am trying my hardest to deal with. For my own sake, I have to find a way to forgive him, though I don’t think that’s really possible. My daughter is my hero.

Also, I have always supported the right to choose. I may not agree with the choice, but feel it should be up to the individual person or people. Not the government or the church. I may be Catholic, but I do have a heart and a brain. Yes, that includes abortion (though I'm against it, I support you having the choice)and being gay (so many people think this is wrong. I have an uncle who is gay and it's never bothered me). I think most people just don't understand and are afraid it may 'rub off' on them so they feel the need to fight against it. Just let them be what they need to be. Who gave us the right to tell others what is right and wrong? Other than murder and theft and obvious stuff. When it comes to matters of the heart, who are we to judge?

I've already met the one I want. He's amazing and if I hadn't been through the bullshit in my past, I wouldn't appreciate just how amazing he truly is.

I am one lucky girl and I know it. I am always looking for more friends though, just understand that I am happily taken and will NOT cheat on him.

He means too much to me and I respect him too much for that. So, if you're man enough to be just friends with a woman, feel free to hit me up, if not, well I hope one day you can grow up enough to get to that point.

A man should never, ever look at a woman only as a means for sex. There is so much more to a woman than that. Yes, some of us only look at men as a means for sex, but most of us don’t. Most of us want a man who will listen to us, and get to know us on an intellectual level. Not just know us enough to get in our pants. If you’re that type of guy, keep on looking. Don’t waste my time as I don’t like to associate with those kind of men either.

If I haven't totally bored you and you still want to know more, feel free to ask away!!