43 Year Old
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Female
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Joined on August 6, 2007
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Relationship status: Married
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Born on March 18th
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I have a crush on someone and 4 different people have a crush on me!
43 Year Old
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Female
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Joined on August 6, 2007
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Relationship status: Married
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Born on March 18th
·21 referrals joined!
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I have a crush on someone and 4 different people have a crush on me!
I can be hard to meet, I'm kinda shy until I get to know someone and hang out in person but once I get a vibe from you I'm very outgoing, goofy, and the most loyal friend you could ever ask for. The more likeable you are in general, the faster I'll be willing to meet you, but push me and I'll get annoyed and pull away. I'm not always easy to be friends with, I expect to get back what I put in and I also expect loyalty from my friends, otherwise It's not really a friendship. I put my family before anything else (which includes my closest friends) and I will never deliberately hurt anyone I care about.
1.) I believe that true friendship is 50/50, you should get in return the same amount of love that you give and you meet in the middle on everything you possibly can or just agree to disagree if you have to.
2.) I believe that any friendship can be long lasting if you just sit down and talk things out, a real friend will understand your concerns, take them into consideration and try to help resolve the problem they will not ridicule or scold you.
I base every friendship on these principles, they are important to me and those who are my closest friends. I have a fubar family that is based on these principles as well, if you can handle honesty and think that these rules apply to the way you live your life, let's talk, like minded friends are usually the keepers :)
I am very musically inclined, I can play piano and I can sing, I'm good and I know it, I can't stand people who try to sing but can't (and I mean people who are REALLY bad) I have perfect pitch and anything less annoys me which is the reason why I will never host karaoke EVER again.
I HATE people who lie about stupid things, I can understand lying about something big if it'll spare someones feelings but little shit is stupid.
I absolutely LOVE to read, I'm a huge Harry Potter geek and i'm terribly sad that the excitement is over now that the books are finished but i'm still looking forward to the last 2 movies. I've also recently fallen in love with the Twilight Saga.
Who wouldn't want to be in love like that??
This brings me to my next interest, movies lol. I can't do scary movies because I don't function well without sleep but bring on the comedies, dramas, action thrillers and cartoons!
I'm a shopaholic, I have a weakness for panties and cute shoes.
I'm a plus sized girl and if you don't like it you can fuck off, I only surround myself with people who like me for who I am not what I look like, although I know I'm a sexy bitch and you can't tell me otherwise.
I really do love to make new friends, I get disappointed easily if they turn out to be people I don't really want to associate with but I get over it.
I love to party, drink, get loud and wild, but I also like to have smaller get togethers at my house with drinks, movies and good times.
I'm an inkaholic! I don't have a lot of tattoos (or a lot of money) but I have lots of art planned out and they will be coming soon to my body near you (if you're lucky ;))I'm also a fan of piercings but have had to limit them due to keloids which makes me sad but I make up for it in ink.
I can't stand people who throw pity parties for themself, suck it up, accept who you are and never put yourself down, it's asking for other people to put you down as well and it's asking for me to dislike you.
When I make friends with people I expect to be friends for a long time, my oldest friends have been such for 21, 18 and 13 years.
It hurts the worst when people I've been friends with for a long time end up not being people I want to be friends with anymore or people who hurt you more than you ever imagined possible.
I tend to be straightforward, I never intend to hurt feelings but it happens. If something needs to be said I would rather get it over with now and talk it out than hold it in for a long time and blow up on you later....along with 500 million other things that have been bugging me over time, that's too long to hold on to anything but love.
You may have noticed up above that I like girls, this is because again I am a LESBIAN, . I haven't been officially out for very long but I was an open bisexual for 10 years, things change but that doesnt mean that i'll make exceptions for any men so don't bother guys or i'll block you.
I am a firm believer that if you have to be drunk to have sex with another girl this does NOT make you gay or bisexual, it means that you are easily pursuaded under the influence of alcoholic beverages to do things that you wouldn't normally do and you probably won't remember without pictures the next morning which apparently translates into you being a BARSEXUAL.
If you haven't noticed my thoughts can be random lol I say things as I think of them whether it pertains to the current conversation or not.
I have a son whom (like every other parent) I think is the most handsome little boy in the world, I also have a husband whom I think is the most handsome BIG boy in the world.
Every now and then I hate my parents....but then I have to borrow money and I suck it up and move on. I've never had a fight with my very best friend of 21 years. I've had a few with my friend of 13 years
As many other women on here have stated, I can be a bitch, who can't? Piss anyone off and they're gonna get an attitude. It is not always deliberate, I strive to be a kind, helpful and loving person but it doesn't always happen that way, I don't always have a good day i'm human just like you (unless you're not in which case you really MUST tell me what you are) and if you annoy me I might tell you off.
I do not (as some may believe) have these sayings on my profile to make myself feel or appear to be cool. They are real situations that have pertained to me in my lifetime and I post them proudly.
I think this is enough information for now, i'll add more as I think of it but if you like me so far, let's be friends, just don't be a shitty one, I don't like those friends....
THIS IS WHY I'M HOT.... WHY? BECAUSE....
BIG GIRLS CAN BE NINJAS TOO!!
(see there's that goofy thing kicking in)
43 Year Old
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Female
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Joined on August 6, 2007
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Relationship status: Married
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Born on March 18th
·21 referrals joined!
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I have a crush on someone and 4 different people have a crush on me!
Interests
I like fun things,420, shopping, camping, swimming, sex (like that wasn't a given), spending time with my family, concerts...normal girl stuff.
