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HarleyRob's blog: "Biker Stories"

created on 04/02/2008  |  http://fubar.com/biker-stories/b203841
Dear BACA, I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for all you have done for our family over the past several months. When my sister called to tell me that she had gotten involved with BACA to help protect my niece, Punk Rocker Princess, I wasnt really sure what to think. Bikers seem to have a reputation and helping kids isnt part of it!! Ill never forget that first ride, at least a dozen bikers showed up. If that row of bikes parked along the street didnt make her feel just a little safer, the fact that you adopted her into your family, gave her a BACA vest and even an official biker name, certainly did the trick! That moment was very empowering for her and the rest of us. As for my doubts, I quickly learned that you guys/gals were anything but typical bikers. I found you were people with normal jobs and lives and ANYTHING BUT normal sized hearts. Each week you give of yourselves to spend time with Punk Rocker Princess and the many other children who need your help. We all looked forward to your weekly visits, especially the children in the family. I remember one visit where the tough looking biker guys were in the backyard, helping the kids do cartwheels. My children still talk about their favorite BACA members. The fact that they know they now have this BACA family helps them cope with the situation also. No need to be afraid with these guys on their side! There was a plea bargain in the case, so it wasnt necessary for BACA to go to court. During the sentencing hearing the adults had a chance to speak. I spoke with a BACA member and mentioned my fear of speaking in the courtroom. As a child I also went through a similar experience and knew that Id have to deal with that while speaking about my niece. On the morning of the sentencing, that BACA member was sitting on the front row of the courtroom. When we wanted to notify residents who live near the sex offender, once again, more than a dozen BACA members showed up to help us pass out flyers in his neighborhood. When it was necessary to go back to court in regards to the case, BACA was there. Time and time again, it only took an email or a phone call and help was there. I cant even begin to express my gratitude for what BACA has done for our entire family. On that first ride you adopted my niece into your family, since then weve adopted BACA into ours. You have an incredible organization full of incredible people. I recently heard your Chapter President speak. I realized that evening how serious he and the rest of your members are about helping children. To see the look in his eyes as he said Its our mission to help all children, regardless of race or what neighborhood they live in or any danger we may be put in, still gives me chills. This mission isnt something that any BACA member takes lightly. I wear my BACA t-shirt proudly and just hope that someone will ask about it, so I can tell them about this wonderful organization. I have been so impressed with BACA and the work you do that I am looking forward to becoming a BACA Supporter myself.
BACA You are beautiful and charming Angels sent from above, To give a gift to a child in need of some extra love. In their heart you lift, A little of their pain. You give them a special gift, You make the world more sane. Without you the world would miss, All of this wonderfulness. You help ease a child's heart, So they are less torn apart. You help us all cope, By showing us there is hope. That they might suffer for what they did, Cause you should never ever HURT A KID! Especially when they have done nothing wrong, You are there all along. On this bumpy ride, You're right there by our side. I know we all say Thank You, For doing all the wonderful things you do. We would be lost without you, And I hope you know that too! Love, Katie
The Biker... When you see us moving past you quickly: Don't take offense or think we're trying to "show off". Ninety five percent of the time, we're trying to get out of your blind spot or taking ourselves out of a potential dangerous situation that has evolved around us. Distancing ourselves from you does not mean we want to race, but that we're giving ourselves the edge we need at the moment. When you hear our horn: Don't take offense or think we're trying to aggravate you. All we're doing is letting you know where we are in relation to you on the road, and we're more than likely aware of your inattentiveness to us while you're talking on a cell phone, eating, reading or involved in some other distracting aspect to your driving. It's important to us, and you, that you know we're there. When you hear our loud pipes: Don't become angry and hostile toward us. Yes, some are quite loud, but for some, there's a purpose behind being loud. It's about letting you know we're close by and we're constantly hoping that our investment in this accessory will help save our lives. Our pipes are really not about our ego...it's a pride and personalization to our form of transportation. When you see us in our clothes: Don't become fearful of us or think us weird. Our leather jackets, chaps, gloves and boots are the barriers between loosing massive amounts of flesh should something cause us to go down...nothing more, nothing less. Safety gear is paramount to our riding. We wear patches on our jackets, and pins on our vests. These are symbols of pride and honor within our group(s), individuals giving back to those who gave. These things bond us as a brotherhood and sisterhood among bikers. Not that we're better than anyone else, but that we have the same kind of nobility and pride in our accomplishments as you may have in the various aspects of your life. I guess one could say; our patches and pins are the decals and the bumper stickers of our involvement with society and the general public, of which we are very pleased to be a part of in our own little way. When you see us in a restaurant: You don't have to shield your child or feel intimidated. We have family, wives, husbands, children and loved ones too, just like you. We smile; we laugh and enjoy the moments we have. We are approachable, and would befriend you, if given the opportunity. When you see us in a parking lot: Don't convince yourself that we're there to "get you". More than likely, we just finished a long ride and are taking a break. Or, we may be meeting up with other riders for a charity run for young children, or another very worthy cause. We may just be admiring one another's bikes, sharing our pride with other brothers and sisters, just like you do with your personal vehicle. It's what we do...it's a part of our lives, and we'd be more than welcome to share with you what riding a bike is all about...if you'd only ask. When you see aggressive riding bikers: Don't put us all in the same stereotypical category as those whose behavior and actions would cause you to react in disgust and intolerance. Many of us do not agree with this style of riding either, and we know and understand that human nature tends to blend us all together as the "same group". Most of us don't want that title...and don't deserve it. When you see a group of bikers on the roadways: Give us the courtesy of sharing the road with you. Please don't "move in" between several bikers in formation. This gets us very excited and nervous, especially when it's done with no due regard for our safety. Provide us with your awareness of the fact that we are much more vulnerable than you. We don't want to challenge you, for all of us are wise enough to know...we'd lose that battle. When you are turning left or entering a roadway/highway: Look, then look again...and then one more time. For we can be easily hidden, and appear to be invisible by such things as a telephone pole, another vehicle, bright lights or the glare of the sun...or possibly, the beads hanging from your rearview mirror, among numerous other items that are displayed there. If you see us flashing our lights at you or blowing our horn, we're only trying to ensure that you will see us before tragedy changes both our lives. When you are behind us: Please give us the room we need and don't tailgate us. If you hit us, we're going down...HARD! We don't want to play games with you, we just want to enjoy the ride and the fresh air, and experience that which many of you have never lived for. If we accelerate away from you, don't interpret this action as though we want to drag race you. We're only trying to take ourselves out of a bad situation if you insist on being too close. When, and if, you experience road rage: Don't take it out on us just because we're smaller than you and more vulnerable. Think about what you're doing and the end result that may become a reality. The consequences of your actions and choices could be very detrimental to our well being, our families, our children and our loved ones. Yes, there are those that can tend to piss you off, however, rage towards them will not solve the issues, but accentuate them. Nine out of ten bikers will do everything they can to take themselves out of that situation without causing you or them harm. When you have an opportunity to talk to us: You'll discover, outside any influenced or stereotypical mindset you may have, that we are just as human as you are, just with different interests and toys. Many of us would give you the shirt off our back if it would tend to brighten your day or console you in some way. We're really no different... and we drive cars, trucks and vans too. So, meet us and greet us...I think you'll be pleasantly surprised that you'll be met with open arms. Thank You for attempting to understand!
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