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All my life, since maybe age 10, I have been a big fan if wide hips and big booties. And usually it was an internal struggle just to resist turning around to get that look when a curvy bbw lady would walk past me. Not because I thought it was morally wrong or politically impolite. But more because if people judging me as pervy for being a natural male. That's how backazzwards the world has become for men. We get penalized for being the way God made us, as if we are the ones dressing women in tight slacks or just tights.

But lately, I have developed better appreciation for the boob. Or as we call them where I grew up, 'tiddies'. Seems there has arisen a new fast food, carb-enriched generation of amply endowed women with top quality racks. Man, have I seen some truly outstanding examples right here amongst my friend contacts. And you know who you are ladies.{wink}. I regret that I did not have time to request all of your permission to include a complimentary photo of you in this post. And there seems to be so many who are angry about guys ripping or saving their photos. Maybe some rude dudes are not bothering to introduce themselves, or worse, reposting the pics without permission, to crude websites. However, If it really was that serious, sites like this would not make it part of their policy to allow you to upload R and X rated photos. But you dont hear me complaining, as I make it my business daily, to enjoy me some lovely booty. Lol.

                                                    Images below are webfinds. Not anyone on this site...

Guys like me are always talking about which women they think are beautiful. And although some might take us as shallow, it is also part of being visual males. Guys look at hot looking cars and probably wonder what it would be like to be driving inside it. Same way they admire beautiful ladies. And I have assembled here some of the best looking cars that I have seen. Im not a snob who thinks that they have to be foreign either...  

                                                                                2012 Chevy Camaro SS

                                                                                  1970 Chevy Chevelle SS

                                                                            1955 Buick Roadmaster

                                                                                  2012 Cadillac CTS-V

                                                                                1955 Chevy Nomad

                                                                                   1966 Buick Riviera

                                                                            2015 Mustang Concept

I've never been a Ford dude. There have been some good looking ones. And although I am GM/Chrysler loyal, this happens to be the best looking Mustang I've seen yet. Maybe it's how it's lowered to a kind of Porsche-like squat to put it eye-level with Vettes and Vipers. A nice start I guess.

I have dated slim ladies. And I have friends who are. It's not all about how someone looks.  Butt... What appeals to the eye of a man stimulates him faster than the eye of a woman. So I dont pretend not to prefer women who are voluptuous. Women who look like these...

Forget imports and even the 1964 Impala. The Riviera was in my book, THE best looking ride on L.A. streets when I was growing up. Better looking than anybody's Ferrari, Porsce or Jaguar. No matter if you were black white or Japanese, this car would forever say, "I'm a pimp" when you rolled up in it. And even people who hate on pimps didnt hate your sleek sexy ride. Lol. This was back when Buick was one of the world class auto makers with it's own disctint identity from Chevy, Ponticac and Cadillac. And for working class black men like my dad and uncles back in the sixties, it was better than a Caddy.

The Riviera  name first entered the Buick line in 1949 as the designation for the new two-door pillarless hardtop, which was described as "stunningly smart." Buick would add a 2-door Riviera hardtop to the Super the following year, the Special in 1951 and the Century upon its return, after a 12 year absence, in 1954. Unlike the Toronado and Eldorado, the 1966 Riviera retained a conventional rear wheel drive layout, making it some 200 pounds heavier, so acceleration with the unchanged 425 engine was slightly slower. The Gran Sport package remained available as an option.

1967 saw the adoption of Buick's entirely new V8/430 cu in. 360 horsepower with 475 lb·ft of torque to replace the old 425 "nailhead". The new engine, with greater power and torque on hand, represented a significant performance improvement. Gasoline mileage improved slightly with the new engine, though it remained gas-thirsty compared to similar cars. Powerful disc brakes with Bendix 4 piston calipers became optional for the front wheels but most Riviera continued to be ordered with Buick's aluminum brake drums which were almost as good. Nowadays, you cant tell Buicks from Toyotas, Lincolns or whatever else is generically shaped like a Honda Accord. I hate that. ~R-E

First, if you are one of those people who thinks that topics like this are taboo or only a myth because slavery is over, please go read somewhere else, because light and dark disctictions are alive and well particularly among black people. And it have roots in slavery. That’s because slave-owners typically gave preferential treatment to slaves with fairer complexions. While dark-skinned slaves toiled outdoors in the fields, their light-skinned counterparts usually worked indoors completing domestic tasks that were far less grueling. Why the discrepancy? Slave-owners were partial to light-skinned slaves because they were often family members. Slave-owners frequently engaged in sexual intercourse with slave women, and light-skinned offspring were the telltale signs of these unions. While slave-owners did not officially recognize their mixed-race children as blood, they gave them privileges that dark-skinned slaves did not enjoy. Accordingly, light skin came to be viewed as an asset among the slave community.

In black America, those with light-skin received employment opportunities off limits to darker-skinned African Americans. This is why upper-class families in black society were largely light-skinned. Soon light skin and privilege were considered one in the same in the black community, with light skin being the sole criterion for acceptance into the black aristocracy. Light skin is so coveted that whitening creams continue to be best-sellers in the U.S., Asia and other nations. Mexican-American women in Arizona, California and Texas have reportedly suffered mercury poisoning after turning to whitening creams to bleach their skin. In India, popular skin bleaching lines target both women and men with dark skin. That skin-bleaching cosmetics have persisted for decades signals the enduring legacy of colorism.

I have noticed as you may have also, that many people in show business have with increasing popularity, chosen to lighten up. Comedians Kim Coles, D.L. Hughley and Sherry Shepherd have all seemed to 'lighten up' from when I first saw them perform around the 1990's. And of course, we all witnessed how the late Michael Jackson went from soul brotha in his younger days, to become Yoko Ono in later life. Many young kids nowadays are because of colorism, percieving themselves as unattractive if they have darker skin. The subliminal message from the media is that white and lighter skinned people are more desirable, happier, successful, trustworthy and just smarter than people who look more African. This drops some people's self-estem so low that hey resort to skin lightening cremes like those mentioned above, to feel more acceptable to our anglo-centric society. What a sorry shame.

I work from home. I saw this on 'The View'. I thought I'd share my slightly altered version.

1. Do your own thing.
Don’t make a man the center of your universe. If you do so before you know if he feels likewise, he will likely lose interest and he might feel smothered by all the attention, favors and clinginess. They say that dating is and relationships are practice for marriage. But you're not quite there yet. So just take it easy for now, and keep your options close by.

2. Don’t overindulge.
While you might think its cute to have only two glasses of wine, we do not. Let him get to know you as you are while dining out. If you need to loosen up before a date, watch a comedy right before you leave or take a walk. Also, order a real dinner. One guy said that he went on a first date and his date wouldn’t order any food because she wasn’t “hungry.” But then, every time he cut a piece of steak on his plate, she reached over and ate it! Lol.

3. Men are NOT afraid of commitment.
Typically, they just dont experience emotions or fall in love as fast. So we might need a little more time to decide if you’re the one. Even if a guy is relationship ready, if you bring up on date three that you’re ready for a relationship he’ll likely question whether you really want to be in a relationship with HIM or if you’re ready for a relationship with anyone. He’s going to wonder how after two dinners and one museum trip you already know that you want him to be your boyfriend.

4. We know you want to be invited in.
And we also know you'll probably say no. If you want to show a man that you’re girlfriend material, don’t hop in bed on the first date. Even if we agree to it, we will probably wonder later, if you would do the same thing with any other guy you were turned on by? It's long range thinking. And this is also a good way to feel out whether he’s for real or not. Dont trip, wondering if  a man will lose interest if you dont strip right away. In fact, for mature guys, it’s actually the opposite. It’s not a deal breaker every time, but it does make the “getting to know you” part take longer. But that is a good pay off in the long run.

5. Don’t call us all the time.
Let us call you. If we are hot for you, we definitely will. This relates to #2. If you’re consistently calling, texting, emailing, and doing all the asking out, we won’t need to. Let the communication be balanced, especially in the beginning. This is not to say that you can’t  reach out to a man you’re dating, but let it be a balanced thing. Some guys like myself, actually dig reasonable amounts of 'Im thinking of you' communication. But usually it's after we are convinced that you are The Numero Uno.

6. Never assume you are exclusive.
As scary as it may seem to talk to your man about not seeing other people, it’s even scarier to just assume he isn’t seeing other people. Words are helpful, and you should use them sometimes. What if he tells you he wants to introduce you to his sister? You think, Awesome!   But it still doesn’t mean exclusivity. He may just feel close and trusts you to meet people he loves. But tune out the wedding bells and again, never assume. Just appreciate and enjoy the visit as a dear friend for now.

7. Men aren’t all the same. Give us a chance!
Ahh...  Along with racism, this is one of my biggest peeves. As easy as it would be to base every opinion you have on an experience you had with a guy or listen to your bff’s advice, not all men are the same. Even if you have been with too many jerk-offs, please try to remember that unless you were kidnapped, you picked them. It is said that a woman knows within five minutes of meeting a man if she will date him. Good guys, thugsters, etc; we pick our friends and lovers. I hope these tips were helpful. But like women, men are ultimately individuals. Let them show up and show you how much!

They say you can never be too rich or too skinny, but I dont think that is true at all times. Many women get too fanatical, alomst religious, with dieting fitness, and just wanting to look younger like the fakes on TV. But this is an american fashion industry fetish. Women, especially younger ones are being made to feel unattractive if they have hips or a phat butt. Its not like that everywhere though. There are places where plues sizes are the norm and gay people are'nt running around trying to get everyone anorexic to fit the styles they design. Sorry if you got offended by that. But I'm not politically correct either..It's all visual. That's what motivates men. But it doesnt mean that there is no room for variwty. I have dated slimmer women as well. And in fact, I would rather spend time with a slim woman who is kind and friendly over a knockout brickhouse who was mean and rude. But in the meantime, bbw eye candy looks like this...

I like seeing full figured ladies in Jeans. But I enjoy seeing them in dresses more.
Sometimes it's the pose or the way she walks, with full booty cheeks bounding
up and down, maybe under a thin skirt.