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BBW = "Big, Beautiful Woman"
Are you "big"? yes
Are you a "woman?" yes
But are you "beautiful?"
This is my pet peeve with the whole thing. Many heavy girls on here say they are a BBW.
I don't doubt that some of you are. But how much of the general population is actually attractive, much less "beautiful?" (They said less than 10% in that Seinfeld episode. It is of course subjective)
Yes, beauty is is only skin deep, in the eyes of the beholder, blah blah blah, and your self esteem, general positivity or what mommy might have told you may lead you to conclude that you are "beautiful." That's fine.
But think about it; how conceited is it to declare that you are a beautiful woman right out of the gate? (Whether you are or not?) You know you HATE conceited people who remind everyone how good looking THEY are, right?
We know that a lot of women are self-admittedly obsessed with their appearance and others' perception of them. So if you declare you are beautiful, does that mean we all have to listen to your delusional rantings or endure your actions around that? In other words, "high maintenance"....just like your super model slimmer siblings. Which makes you even LESS attractive to many people.
And it would make it worse if you were more beautiful in your own mind than you are in the mirror.
We appreciate your full disclosure. But PLEASE think twice before you declare yourself to be beautiful! Which is what you do by saying you are a BBW just because your are one of the B's and a W.
Be honest with the words "big", "heavy", "curvy", "thick", "fat".
And "attractive" I might believe. But how many truly "beautiful" girls can there be?
Now I know I am opening a flood gate for people to attack me. But I dont call myself "Beautiful" "Attractive" even say I have a great "Personality" I am just me.
P.S. For all the ladies that think I am just a "hater" I am bi. I like girls more than boys. :)
