I finally figured out when a person makes a game a real life priority...rather than real life...they are a lost cause....There is no hope to make sense of why they do it. And by the time you notice it, it appears that they are too far gone, like an addiction ridden person looking for their fix...So give it up, do not blame yourself...realize it is them, not you, with the issues at hand. Be strong...for it won't be long before you will find yourself willing to be second to a fantasy in their life and heart. Don't you deserve better?