well now, the wheels have been set in motion. and maybe I will finally be free from the lowlife asshole I was married to for 14 years. I have discovered that since he has been gone my credit score has come up, my bills are paid on time, I have money left between paychecks, I can smile and laugh again,and I can be me the way I want to be me. I guess I want to thank those two individuals who brought on this wonderful change in my life and I hope they will appreciate all the changes that I am about to make to their lives. I am basically a good person but when you get pushed too far thee is no turning back. My life, my better life is about to begin and I can only pray for these lost souls who are to ignorant to know their time has come.