Hi I'm Paula and a few things about me....

No I'm not really 80, divide that by half and you're close to my actual age. I'm a bit of a loner but do enjoy good company. I've always been a dreamer and I firmly believe once I stop it'd be a sad, sad day.

I refuse to pay for anyone else's mistakes and won't make you either. I'm not too hard to get to know if someone puts forth an honest effort to do so, although I tend to protect my privacy fiercely until I get to know someone well.

Please don't ask me to do phone, text, Skype, Kik, IM, or cam. I DON'T/WON'T do it. If you do ask I will tell you the same exact thing as I put here. If you continue to persist you will get blocked. Simple as that. I only shout box chat with my fu family. It's just what I prefer. Please respect that. I do tend to answer most messages.

I'm very nice until someone pushes me too far or treats me or my friends poorly. If you're a racist, sexist, ageist (the list goes on) or in general a bigoted and mean person please stay away from me with that idiocy. I believe everyone has a right to their opinion and I will defend your right to have it but if I find something offensive it doesn't mean I will stay around to listen.

I love 'oldies' as far as music and new stuff too. Anything else? Just ask and remember please that respect goes a long, long way with me.

God bless our US military veterans/active duty/reserves!!!