I have a few medical problems.. that Iay not mention when we first start talkin and being friends...no its not an std.. nothin anyone can catch... I have many back problems ive had surgery on and have to have some more... and now with my neck also... there is more... but it seems one person I actually met in person who I thought was a true friend... brings it upon himself to tell everyone things that I dont make announcement s bout cause im still me snd dont want pity.. yes I've had a hard life so what who hasn't. .. but if ur my real friend then cancer or not... ur not gonna treat me any different. . And to the one who made me lpse several friends because I didnt wanna be with you... let me know when u have felt u have hurt me enough to satisfy what ever wrong it is u think ii have done to you.... I am sorry u feel like this is what u need to do... I have a ten year old daughter whom is my whole world... she is my heart and soul... Hello my name is Becka... I am here to make friends only... I aint lookin to "hook up" I will not be havin sex with anyone I meet on here... I aint lookin for a love connection... although I tend to love my friends.... however that is a different kinda love... I have been in love completely and truely once in my life... that was enough for me so please if you are talkin to me thinkin ur gonna get lucky... believe me I am bout as stubborn and redneck as we come and im here to tell u now ur wasting both our time cause it wont happen... now if ur here lookin for friends (and btw I dont sleep with my friends) then u are talkin to the right woman. . I hope that ya still don't try but if u do.... I will not be conversing with u any more... I feel that a man and woman must become the best of friends before anythin like a relationship is even in any discussion. .. and call me old fashioned if u like... I also feel before sex trust has to be established. .. you get that through time and friendship, as well as dating for a while... I am also good for pushin people away when I feel they are gettin to close.... its one of my many flaws... I am currently workin onjust me... I hurt myself working.. I go to drs. and try to keep pain under control.... This is a passin of time for me.. and sometimes helps take the mind off the pain.. I have a daughter, and I am not lookin to hook up.. so don't ask.. thanks... If you can make me laugh help me pass the time I can be a great friend... have a great one.. thanks!!! Ok I didn't know anyone read this.. I was working in a limited mental health fac. I got attacked, My lower back got hurt and I was to stubborn to go to the dr, figured it would heal up on its own.. It got to the point that i had to make a choice.. Get surg.. or not be able to walk again.. I got surg.. somehow in the past like 5 years, I hurt my neck and upper back as well... I am still living though.. I stopped seeing drs, 'cause they all told me the same thing "that I would never work again". And until recently I haven't seen one. I thought to myself I was tougher than the pain.. I could get back to working I walked when they thought I wouldn't. I failed. I hope this covers all the questions.. if not i can add more i reckon.. I am not happy about having to see dr.s again.. but I hope some good comes of it this time around.